Would a gal change her mind?

last SG · 2007-02-12T19:22:23+00:00

wow thanks! So wad i do now is to give her the super extremely comfortable feeling and indirectly tell her, "I love you"

ifish SG

Been rejected by this gal late last year. This year, we got closer, going out together, sms everyday, and talk on the phone for long hours. Which we had not done last time. There was once when i did not reply her for 3 days and she got worried for donno wad reason. She's a shy and quiet gal.

So did she change her mind? Confused

browniebaobao SG

can try to ask her again.

ask her whether she's free on V day.

charlize SG

Buy her a dozen roses for valentine's day.

Yes, yes i know.

This will be one of the rare times I give you people sensible advice. Laughing

charlemagne SG

Worth another shot! But tread carefully though. You may never know what will happen.

CoolMyth SG

Since you've asked before, no harm trying and getting rejected again. Laughing

ifish SG

we having exam that day and the next day leh.. even if she dont want to study, i want to study. v day atmosphere can create anytime at a cheaper rate.

CoolMyth SG

Wah lan eh, you think of yourself nia. I think she might like it if you surprise her on V day lor. Laughing

ifish SG

donno la.. just that thinking long term la..

if i fail i need to retake the whole sem = wont same class with her anymore
if i pass = another year Very Happy

dont think she gonna fail. she the study kind.

leo-kun SG

maybe at that point of time she got someone in mind and now she is alone…dont be too happy about it…

countdracula SG

well done, studies and future security comes first...no money no honey.....so if you miss this boat, there could be better boats to come along....maintain your priority....you see many mats and bengs who 'score' early on in life but struggle in the later years....my cousin was a tattooed beng with many chicks....got a kid whom he never sees anymore....now regrets didn't educate himself much....

Bontakun SG

Good point count.

To ifish: valentines day is created by some guy for "I forgot what reason therefore I dunno". As long as you know what is important for you at this period. There is little to worry about how she "changed her mind".

Settle your exams. Then ask her out. Mr. Green

ifish SG

hmm ya.. for now, studies first and maintain the r/s..

but do u all think i got chance? she even made smth nice for me just now even though it look so ugly. Claim that she's bored

browniebaobao SG

book her first.

make up an excuse say to celebrate exam's over.

ifish SG

haha.. good idea.

but after exams got 3 weeks attachment.. she usually not free on weekends.

stan. SG

you keep saying not free, got exam all this when you don't ask must well don't woo her anymore right?

choco B SG

You might not agree with the concept of Valentine's but the fact is IT'S THERE and just by ignoring it won't make it go away Laughing

Fair enough that you both wanna concentrate on exams. But at least send her a sweet message, or a card. Not too much of an effort right. It'll be a nice gesture, then she knows you think she's special.

ifish SG

yea.. i will not take the trouble myself on v day but that does not mean i will ignore it completely. hmm.. thanks for the suggestion. Wink

ifish SG

ohh well.. everybody have a busy month and a slacking month rite?

anyway the last time i ask is before some tests and it screw up. One of the many reason she gave me is she want to concentrate on her studies.

at least if i did not tell her during this period that same excuse wont come out in her mind that easily rite?

charlize SG

Book her first?

Is she some kind of PRO at some nightclub? Laughing

rane SG

hello, ifish, this is a good sign. sounds promising, very positive. She either treats you as a very good friend or she likes you a lot. Cool