Originally posted by ahhaoz:
My gf and I got together in Aug 04, december 05 she left for the
states for an exchange.. may 06, there was a period of time where
she totally ignored my calls or my msn.. when she was back in june
06, she broke off w me.. and in july she went away again.. she came
back in dec 06 and i asked her out.. the feeling was so right.. and
we were together again.. we celebrated v-day on monday and we had
an enjoyable time.. but there's some knots in me..
She always calls this guy whom she went to the states with for
exchange a jerk.
I can feel it in my blood it has got to do with the period of
ignorance in may..
I asked her," what happened in the states"
she replied," why you ask... shouldn't the past be
buried.. aren't we starting anew?"[/b]
burying the past.. is this a form of excapism? isn't coming to
terms what has happened in the past and truly letting go of the
incident better?
Something definitely did happen btw them, but i think its best
you let her tell u herself, rather than keep on harping on it, and
ask her what happened. She probably won't tell u because i)she
doesn't want u to feel jealous/angry/sad/jealous or ii) because the
past hurts, and she don't want 2 think about it anymore.
Either way, its up to u 2 decide if u really can forgive, forget
and move on in life. But be warned that if u cannot forgive and
forget, then it will be a sore point in ur relationship, and may
come into action the next time u 2 quarrel.
