Good point, Xiao Jun. 
To elcapitan:
On the normal side, many forumites here tell you how to make your
"portfolio" better so as to
attract more gals to communicate with you. Be yourself, more
chances in JC/poly/ITE/others, etc, etc...
On the Christian side, grow more in
spirit and learn to leave this "issue" to God. He will have
one prepared for you as you prepare yourself for one. No need to
ask when or how. When you are ready, He will reveal her to you.
