Same problem as one of the forumite!

last SG · 2007-02-16T00:23:15+00:00

YEA if not how to get sales.. lie ..lie lie n yes..cheat

xShevchenkox SG

Well to all here...

l tink l oso posses a problem similar to one of the forumite starting this topic...

l dare to call up my good guy frenz and tok abt sch wrk and etc, ask them out...joke with them

But to those ppl...that l noe online...nver see be4 or tok be4 de...juz chat in msn and game..then one day...l hav to call them..tell them sumtinz...especially gals...l will be kinda nervous...like mind empty empty de...cnt tink of topics to say...very jialat... is like dun noe y lehz...feel so awkward like that.....

Does anyone noe what is this problem of mine mah? l did ask a guy frenz..whether l am normal or not...he say of coz la...he told me if he were to speak to sumone he had nver spoken be4 on phone...he oso will be nervous... Rolling Eyes

FireIce SG

get an outdoor sales job..
train u to be able to talk to anyone and be damn thick-skinned

Ito_^ SG

normal ma.

as long wun get too much in the way, i suppose it'd be fine.

SGpork SG

normal lei...
but at least its only..phone..

just talk like normal n relax..

Laughing

xShevchenkox SG

l am having a part time job le..dun tink l will want to get another job..summore those sales de...l dun tink l wan...based on commisson to do work de...even gt basic pay..oso damn low..l dun mind go try if the pay is good Rolling Eyes

SGpork SG

YEA

Laughing
if not how to get sales..

lie ..lie lie n yes..cheat

FireIce SG

but it's good training.......

udontknowme SG

write down what you wanna say before you call lah…

SGpork SG

if the pay is good like u said..

who dont wanna ?

Laughing

xShevchenkox SG

ya...l still dare to tok and tell them the things l wan to say...juz that will be damn nervous lo...haha..l am more used to tok to ppl..that l hav interact quite sumtime..before moving to fone toks...

xShevchenkox SG

hmm good idea for short converstions but nt long conversations

SGpork SG

link...n more links..

maybe u wanna do a mindmap

Shocked Shocked Shocked

M©+square SG

How long is considered long?

Ito_^ SG

same as me lor. i think many many ppl oso lidat.

xShevchenkox SG

How to say ah...it is not like l am not confident or wad..it juz sounds weird la..imagine la...that person u nver tok be4 de or see be4 de....

Then if l act as normal...like the way l tok to my good frenz...l tink will frighten them out lo...

l am afraid they cnt tk it..u see....Cuz l will laugh and keep joking ard de...

ifish SG

i got opposite problem.. i more scared of talking to girl alone face to face then talking to them on the phone

xShevchenkox SG

really ah...then l am relieved....cuz actually this problem do troubles me..u see...l was tinking in my mind..."Hey y like that ah?" Why l so nervous lor..
Then l began to tink y sum guys so good at this ah? They nt scare...1st time oso dare to call up and chat until so happily..without feelin anything Rolling Eyes

Ito_^ SG

so did anyone say they can't take it cuz u keep laughing and joking around?

xShevchenkox SG

so far dun hav...y ne?

Ito_^ SG

different ppl use different attitude to face unknown ppl.

some ppl can talk until the sky turn dark, to cover their nervousness. some ppl juz shuts up.

i abit envious of the former, cuz i usually wld keep quiet. den again, normally, im juz quiet so it doesn't really matter.. Laughing

and some ppl are simply natural.