Recently, my boyfriend's separated wife, who is of cohesive
terms with him, came to singapore with their son (she is a
hongkonger), and obviously, they stayed over at their matrimonial
home.
being sensitive to the feelings of his wife and their son, of
course we do not meet up often. maybe only once a week.
last night, he told me that he will be going for a traditional
family CNY trip with his family, and his wife and their son will be
going too. to make my heart sink further, i was told that her
family will be joining his family in the trip. her mother has
contracted terminal diseases, and this is her last trip, he says.
and asked me if that is ok. asking me about something that is goin
to stay, and is not goin to change? wat was i supposed to say? i
kept quiet.
I am really disturbed by this. and confused too.
Where is the line? Am i being over sensitive or is he just being
insensitive? 
