Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:

Im not trying to spend alot larh! Im getting so frustrated with my
hair nowadays that i just might take a chopper and chop off the
hair. Serious! Im not joking! ( I will go suffer from depression of
this goes on, cuz i show some signs of it, looking at the mirror
for 20mins and gets frustrated easily and end up scolding my family
members)
Thats why i want to buy some
hair conditioner so that my hair is more manageable and i wont get
so frustrated that much.
And FYI, most of my fwens works, and they even support their
family.
I want to work!
I
need my own money, not my parent's.
Imagine you were me, you are studying now, but you also want to
have some leisure life right? Then you wish to work, but you are
afraid that your studies might get affected. If you dont work, you
cant spend money that much, and if you spend quite a sum ur parents
get angry.
So you see? This is the problem. If i work, my studies might get
affected and my parents become not happy. Spend money without
working they also not happy. So either way they will be unhappy.
Work= get own money , studies get
affected, [b]parents not happy. Dont work = Studies wont
get affected that much, spend some sum of money, parents
not happy
So im kinda stuck now...
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pengz.. since ur hair is giving u so much trouble.. shave botak
la.. u are a guy leh.. shaving bald is very easy for u.. in this
way, u wun have to tik about buying any hair products and maybe u
can even save on buying shampoo.. then u wun feel fustrated over ur
hair and end up quarelling with ur family members.. btw depression
is not like that one.. depressions occurs when u don even wan to
lok urself in the mirror.. don bother bout anything and kip on
crying..
i rem when i was a student at that time. i didn;t work part time
jobs or watever.. not becos my parents are rich but becos i noe my
responsibility is concentrating on my sch work. i noe that if i
work and study at the same time, i wun be able to handle well in
both tasks. so i rather study hard. i don have much leisure as
well, at most watch movies every 3 months, window shopping. i try
to scrimp whatever i can.. my parents only gave me daily allowance
and this include my meals and my transport.. other than that, i
have to handle myself.. if i wan to go for shopping, i have to save
up myself.. i tik i am even worse than u but i still be able to
cope well.. my fres didn;t dump me becos i cun afford fine dinning
with them..
if u have a gf now, and she noe bout ur situation, if she loves u,
she will understand.. cos u are jus a student only.. there is no
nid to like treat her every now and then.. maybe instead of going
to some expensive cafes, treat her to foodcourt la.. if she loves
u, she wun mind.. anyway, u are still young, even if she dump u
becos u poor or wat, let it be.. nx time when u are successful, i
am sure she will come running after u..
lastly, no matter what u do, don let this affect ur relationship..
afterall, i belive even if the whole world leaves u, u still have
ur family supporting u all the way thru..
if u nid a part time job, i heard that some hotels tend to employ
part time students waiters to serve in banquets. if not, now cny
coming.. a lot of ba kua shops hiring pple to bbq the pork.. can
lok out for it in the papers..