kuri SG He says he really loves me. I ask him why. He says it's just based on feelings. I say but my behaviour has been rather annoying from the first time we met. And he says yes there were times i made him clenched his fist in frustration, however he has learnt to accept it for who i am. Say i m thinking too much you may,but there's a nagging doubt in my head. If i were really irritating to him why would he have wanted to get close to me in the first place? Why bother to tolerate me if i need to b tolerated? Love has no reason? Really?
mayday80 SG he's lying. I confirm that for you. But right now... the crush-type feeling is still strong in him that he don't care. You continue to be bad to him... see if things will change Really, if you like him please treat him better.
charlize SG Sister, you are only 21. You will be enlightened as you grow older. A forum is the last place I would recommend you finding answers to issues of love and relationship. Try Cosmo instead.
kuri SG Thanks for ur wonderful not-so-helpful answer. An answer nevertheless. Tho i think i'd get a more comprehensive one from Seventeen even. Thanks Really.
mayday80 SG apparently you’ve already decided that you like him liao. In this case you’ll only listen to what you want to hear.
blu_sky SG if you have already chosen to be with him, curb your (annoying?) behaviour i suggest. that is if you want to make the relationship work.
kuri SG While i admit i dun hav a complete doctrine on the subject matter n little relevant experience to which i can refer to,i just feel that there must be some quality about a person which makes u want to love him/her. Even if it's just based on feelings,the feelings shouldn't be baseless otherwise it could be likened to building castles in the air. How could it be enduring?
blu_sky SG i guess such feelings starts from chemistry, thus cant really explain. yes, it is probably not enduring, hence we need other factors to make the feeling last, and the relationship work.
kuri SG I do like him. a big part of it cos i am touched by his patience with me. but i m still withholding commitment at this point of time cos i cant be sure. whether what he calls love for me would be enduring.
