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Sigh seriously.. I'm at a fix guys! help me!!
Quite awhile back. My boyfriend of afew years broke off with
me..
back then, i was totally devastated,
then came along this guy.
we never really expressed interest in each other, cause when we
knew each other.
i was a depressive bit*ch and he said he liked being single.
so being practical, even though my heart falls for him.. as he
really is so nice, lovely to be with, we're so similar yet so
different. but i just love spending time with him. I just left it
as friends, and never dared to say anything..although it drives me
crazy! just thinking of him..yet wondering if he likes me
too..
he's so weird..
He's this quiet kinda guy at times. the cool reserved dude.
when i was down int he begining of my break up,he accompanied
me.
when i got myself almost drunk, he drove in the middle of the night
to pick me up and send me home despite he himself not feeling
well.
we would accompany each other.
when i had tt bad time..he said he'll take care of me and make sure
i'll be fine..
but the thing was..
he never openly expresses interest. he doesnt message me oftent
like once a day or sumtin at least.
but instead every few days we would come in contact again.
there was afew period of times he would dissapear. and reappear
again, saying he was sent away on an urgent business trip and didnt
have time to tell me till he came back.
we would like not contact..and den contact again..on off on
off..
its like a turmoul...
recently
we started going out for meals together again.. and afew days later
a day out,during the day out
we went out to have fun, play games and so on..thru out the
day,
he was looking at me.. staring and smilling at me..
i admit i felt pleased that he was looking at me so!
we went to eat, instead of the usual him seating opposite me like
every other guy would usually do. he sat right next to me!
we chat, awhile latter..he opened up to me..cause i noticed after a
message or 2, he look disturbed and upset.
he told me that it was about his ex gf..
whom he broke up with..but he still feels it..
but i was like..how can u feel it when u broke up mutually?
he was like he feels like he couldnt live with her, at the same
time couldnt live without her..
my god.. i swear my heart tightened so bad at tt moment..
but i managed to smile..give him advice as a friend would..
telling him tt he can get over her and stuff...
i told him he'll be fine..
but he was like.. wat about now?? he still feels the pain.
....
basically thats all i could write for now about my
sistuation..
i dunno wat to do? or wat to think??
he does things tt might show tt he likes me.. at the same time
there are things tt show tt he doesnt..
plus he said he feels for his ex gf as in sumhow hes used to
her..
but he doesnt love her..
does he like me somewhat? does he not like me? whats he
thinking??
am i picking up the wrong signals??? or does he have at least a
little
liking for me as more den a friend??or am i just making myselfd
belive those signals were to say tt he is interested???
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thank you guys for all your opinions.
overall. i suppose it says tt he prob isnt into me.
i prob over looked at it.
hes just being a friendly guy.
i suppose that things are better off kept in the dark,
I dun wish to lose his friendship =]
If things were to progress, hey! im a lucky gal.
if not, i prob didnt strike loterry.
