Hi, Doko
Hee, hee, still on the topic of relationship. Let me share with you
our experience (mine and my friends). It definitely takes two to
clap in any relationship.
Dating: Come across mummy's boys, spend too much time with buddies,
stingy and have never bought Valentines' Day/birthday presents,
can't be trusted, flirt with other gals, want girlfriend to stay
home and not go out, self centred, not caring. Refuse to
communicate when there are problems. Bf is insecure.
Marriage: Don't help to do housework and look after kids, everyday
come back home late - 2 to 3 am and expect sex (unemployed). Gave
hubby $ to start business for 2 times, hubby continued to take
things for granted and still ask for more $. Hubby comes home
everyday after dinner play computer games and refuse to take care
of kids. Extra marital affair. Wife unemployed but still continue
to look for job, husband is insensitive and uncaring told wife off
saying that she is lazy, refuse to look for job and does not help
to provide her financial need during her unemployment.
Well, well, the above are just some of the problems in a
relationship. We need to be open to each other's needs, moods, and
problems to improve the relationship. If one party refuses to do
so, then relationship won't work. Nobody is perfect, but whenever
there are issues or problems to be addressed, both parties must be
mature, objective, sensitive, understanding and proactive to sort
things out.
Hope the above help you to have a clear picture of those things
that happen in some relationships.
