Originally posted by curiousOrange:
Speaking purely base on my instinct. Read this and think about
it.
She reacted this way not because she still loves you.
She reacted this way because she could sense that she is slowly
losing her grip on you.
After the breakup, your work is affected. Your life is in a
mess.
She is sympathetic but at the same time, your plight serves as a
much needed ego booster for her.
She needs to rebuild her self confidence after a failed
relationship. And there is nothing more satisfying to see how much
you are affected by it.
Now she can feel that the tide is turning, that loss of power over
you frustrates her.
So CuriousOrange is saying that she is sympathetic but seems to be
"gloating" over your misfortune at the same time.
Sounds ironic doesn't it?
But most of the time, humans cannot help but react subconsciously
to situations presented to them.
What Im trying to explain to you is a subtle but important
difference.
She wants that control she has over you but it doesnt mean she
still loves you.
If you ask her to patch up with you again, she will most probably
say no.
Life doesnt have a rewind button. Get over with it and
move on.[/b]
Read this. Though this might not be exactly the picture, but
it's probably not too far off from the truth?
Of course, I would have to add on my personal comment that there're
quite alot of facts which you've decided to hold back from us in
the 1st place? It won't be quite fair for us to give a proper
overall advice for you based on that fact alone. Anyway.. If you
feel that all's in the past and you would not like to talk about
them anymore, I would respect your decision for that? But in any
case, do keep them IN your past?
It would certainly sounds weird and funny if you've decided to let
your past comes out and back to haunt you while hiding things from
us..? I don't see how much we can really help based on that?
