My mind in a total mess now!!!

last SG · 2007-01-21T01:33:17+00:00

Even when she already have a boyfriend and it's Threadstarter's good friend?

pang_79 SG

i really dunno how to put it....i find myself falling in luv with a gal in my company....however i just recieve news that she is actually dating 1 of my close fren in the company...i went checking around...seems like no 1 in the company knows that they are a item....i now feeling so low, so loss.....really feel like crying....

wat should i do??....i have few broken relationships before n i have kinda loss faith in luv....but she is the 1 who rekindle this fire...yet she is with some1...n that some1 is 1 of my close fren....wat should i do???....

and if u might be thinking how i know this, i got this news from a fren...she try n question my this close fren...after alot of questioning...my close fren finally admit their relationship....

wat should i do??.....i dun think i can face this gal or my close fren anymore.....

wat should i do???...btw thanks for reading....

jeramy SG

what should you do? what can you do??

to take the easy way out, avoid her.

if you can't see what she's doing, it will be easier to forget about all these, after all, she's nobody to you right?

feel like crying because the girl you are interested in is already attached? come on..

sheri SG

Err…actually u can try confess to the gal lor. Than it will be her choice whether to choose u or your friend. In the meantime just pretend u dunno that they are both an item, since it was harsh harsh in the first place.

pang_79 SG

ya...maybe is abit stupid to cry over her....to avod her???....ya...that can be done....since she currently locate in another factory under our company...hope time will wash away the hurt n pain....

M©+square SG

Hurt and pain? Neutral

pang_79 SG

my guess that she has already know my feeling to her....she even try to match mate mi with her fren....

pang_79 SG

after my last relationship, i have never dare to fall in luv again....i dunno how come...i just find myself wanting to be close with her, just want to know everything abt her...so long have never take the courage to luv some1...n when this news came...really like earthquake....everything just crash...

iLuVpOrKyPiG SG

resign!!!

M©+square SG

I ASSUME you know her and vice versa.

How far have you come in contact with her? Is she your friend already?
Have you tried dating her?
What is the frequency of conversation you estimate you had initiated?
How long have you known her?
How many relationships have you gotten yourself into?
How long did your last relationship last? When did it end?

smudgey SG

take some time off....

go somewhere where you can relax and collect your thoughts....

try to avoid them (if possible) for the time being.

but you have to work on getting over the shock and accepting it.

remember, you have felt this way before (after you breakups) but you'll get over it eventually.

Devil1976 SG

Chance should be what you give to yourself and not what only so happens that someone can give to you...

Try to recollect your thoughts and manage your own feelings 1st..

What makes you think that even if this girl is not attached then you're likely to stand quite a chance with her...?

If you're so weak emotionally, why even venture into a relationship which you don't even seems to have much chance and confidence over...?

pang_79 SG

thanks for all ur replies....have already taken leave from the company...hide somewhere in this world n sort out my feeling...once again thanks for all the advices....

initially still thinking of sending her roses on valentine day.....looks like there is no such need anymore

Devil1976 SG

Life goes on... Save your roses for your another girl...? Why the hurry...? There's always Valentine's Day every year...? Wink

mancha SG

He who dares win.

When you quietly wait for the world to conform to your mind's expectations, that is just what happens, you wait, that's all.

Your story played out accordingly, no mistake there.

dokono SG

What should you do?

Forget her. She doesn't like you. She can never like you again. You can't force her to like you. Concentrate on your work and your career. Then start getting to know other girls.

I know you can do it.

doko

BenBenDeZhu SG

still dating only still got chance Surprised

pang_79 SG

ya....guess u are rite...i should have made my first step when i still have the chance...but there is no point crying over spilled milk now...just wish them all the best...

Simple_Bear SG

First, get to know her better...

Second , know the 'truth'...

Third, plan Ur strategy...

Mr. Green

M©+square SG

Interesting, you’re ignoring my questions

pang_79 SG

yes i do know her n she is my fren....n we have gone a quite a few times, in groups...as for whether i tried dating her...the answer is no....i haven't confess to her that i like her...i actually intend to do on this coming valentine day..think no need for that already...since she is already my fren's gf...known her like 3 yrs..she come into the company just abt the same time as i do....as for the rest of your question...i really dun wish to answer them...since they are the past...hope u dun mind...