attached first or get to know each other better first??

last SG · 2018-02-02T04:04:18+00:00

wat if she says 'i can but i dun want."?

nightlord24 SG

is it better to get attached with the person you liked first then slowly get to know each other or to be friends(for sometime) and get to know each other better first then get attached??? Confused

pie SG

you prefer matchmaking? Laughing

Bontakun SG

You like surprises or stability?

Have you read a quote in Sun Tzi Art of War: "Know thyself and know thy enemy is a 100% victory guaranteed"?

mhcampboy SG

But he is not a general.. all based on theory... Mr. Green

choco B SG

No fixed rule to such thing, every relationship is different. Just approach with enthusiasm and some common sense LOL

ditzy SG

Of course get attached first lor, that way, you can work it from the inside out. Laughing

M©+square SG

do not mislead.... Evil or Very Mad Twisted Evil Mr. Green

iLuVpOrKyPiG SG

please define inside.

Embarassed

smudgey SG

i think the answer in this case is OBVIOUS!!!

of course u gotta get to know each other better first....

if not doesn't it mean that the only reason you got together with her is due to looks? Evil or Very Mad

Bontakun SG

You do know the theory can be used in every situation if you know the meaning in it, right...?

xShevchenkox SG

l tink get to noe a person 1st...hav that frenship bond with her liao..then maybe u will like to proceed to the nxt lvl..

Rather than get attached with her le..then both of u find out that u two hav different tinkings and views and different ways of doing things

It is like learning maths...u must hav the basic foundations 1st mah..before u can tk another step to challenge other more difficult questions..
To score well in maths..u must hav a strong foundation and then it shldnt be much of a problem to do well le..

This theory can be applied in this area...To noe her the gal well liao...build up that bond with her...and see lo...whether she wants to go with u to the nxt lvl not..=)

choco B SG

Eat first pay later. The most can refund wad Laughing

Anyway even after attached you're still finding out more about each other - it doesn't stop .

shinta SG

sometimes that might not work...

after u got together u realise the bf/gf is a total cow...

Surprised

xShevchenkox SG

well if u really dun wan to hurt urself in a r/s in the end...and want a stable and nice gf...l tink is better to noe her better 1st before making any move...

Of coz..if u are those that are juz lusting for the gal..juz wan to get a chance to bed them, by all means..attached 1st lor..dun really need to go understand and noe them better as ur motive is very clear liao

Twisted Evil

the_don SG

a responsible choice would be to get to know the other party first. that way you would also enjoy the chase.

but like other posters have sad, if you are only interested in the carnal, then it does not make a difference. some guys actually pretend to get to know the gals to make them more comfortable with them.

smudgey SG

that's why i say get to know each other better first ma!

Devil1976 SG

Depends on what grounds you're having the relationship and how strong is the chemistry?

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by xShevchenkox:

well if u really dun wan to hurt urself in a r/s in the end...and want a stable and nice gf...l tink is better to noe her better 1st before making any move...

Of coz..if u are those that are juz lusting for the gal..juz wan to get a chance to bed them, by all means..attached 1st lor..dun really need to go understand and noe them better as ur motive is very [b]clear liao

Twisted Evil [/b]

Actually I think choco B have got quite her own valid points too....?

Trying to know her better...

How well is knowing her 'well enough'...? What if while trying to 'know her better' then she got attached along the way...?

despondent SG

maybe tis can help u...

http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=221569

Yunhaier SG

Knowing someone is an entire life-worth of work?

It doesn't mean that if you spend a good deal of time trying to know this lady, after being in a relationship with her, you will automatically understand her?

Of course if you can, you try to understand as much. And if you are successful in your approach (when you are in a relationship with her), you continue this effort on your part of trying to know her better?

It's never a penalty to know more about somebody? Idea

Cheers