Bontakun SG Why do you need to find one urgently? Is it because you are lonely and you feel a form of void in you? Or you feel pressurized that many of your peers have one and you fear you are left out if you do not have one? Or you just wanted to show off like what Starpup has said?
dork3d SG Or you need a girlfriend to make out with on weekends when you book out, so to relieve the "stress" in her?
Bontakun SG What are your friends for? What is your family for? What are your interests for? If you want a GF just to curb your loneliness during your weekend bookouts, what happen if you are unable to book out? What if she call you every night because she is lonely? What if she go date another guy because you cannot accompany her during the weekdays?
DarkMatter SG OK then, I just need a girl- friend to accompany me during weekends, because I got nothing to do on weekends as my family is overseas 90% of the time. I only got 1 maid to talk to, and she dun speak good language either. grrrr. I am so bored.
Bontakun SG So you are thinking mainly with your other head as you are stressed out in NS? You cannot interact with any OTHER people then?
DarkMatter SG most of my campmates will have appointment with their own friends from their school. For my case, I do not have good relationship with people from my school. thus I dun have much friends. All my relatives are mostly in overseas now........
Bontakun SG Get new friends then. Do not harp on "getting a GF because I am lonely on weekends". It will come to NO GOOD end. Devote much time to better yourself so you can attract more friends. I assume you do not have good relationship with many people is because of some character traits in your as well as those people? Learn to improve yourself as you go along and in time you will get a few nice surprises.
Bontakun SG You are missing out on many things then. Oooo boy. Nvm slowly you will learn more on your way. I just want to double-check: You are finding a girlfriend or a girl-friend?
TXian SG You dun need a GF la...book out come SGF so many ppl here... dun distroy a girl cuz u are bored..doubt u will reli have feelings for her in this kind of relationship anyway..
