DeadPoet SG Hmm ... so it is because woman and man see this differently? So can I say that most men will want to save their wives and most women will want to save the babies?
DeadPoet SG Exactly. We can always have another baby and even if she doesn't want to take the risk again I am fine with it.
DeadPoet SG Thanks SevenEleven but she is not pregnant yet but we are planning to have a baby this year.
hisoka SG i wonder if this question will drive holes into the relationship, but what if you asked her to choose between saving you and the child instead? if her answer was to abandon you would it be satisfactory?
DeadPoet SG I try to put myself in her shoe and I still don't get it. Maybe it is because I am not a woman.
DeadPoet SG That is a good idea! I will ask her tonight! Actually such discussions bring us closer as we get to know each other better every day.
DeadPoet SG Wait I ask her then I tell you okay. Actually I don't mind if she decided to save the baby.
