My Old Frn

larryk SG · 2007-01-15T23:14:40+00:00

You know, this actually happened to me before. I never talked to her again because I know she has no liking for me. You don't even have to ask them out. Som...

larryk SG

Hi Guys... I am new to this forum and this is my first post.

I am currently courting a girl whom I tried to court a few years ago...In between, both of us got attached to another partner but now we're single again...

I tried to catch up with her by msging her online or via sms... The results seems mixed.. Some days she would just totally ignore me while on others we talked like old friends. I asked her out recently for dinner and she said ok though we didnt fix a date. I would like to hang out with her yet I am afraid it may be quite awkward as we havn't met for ages and also I have no idea if she's interested in a r/s as of now.

If you guys hav any ideas or advice to share, I'll be more than happy.

Thnks.
L

Ito_^ SG

date her out and see see lor. if not u'll always be her online "fren".

Kira

Agenda SG

x2

L

larryk SG

i think that’s what I would do. But before I do that I would like to have more assurances from her as well. Just in case she decides to ignore me like she does online or when i smses.

Ito_^ SG

maybe she oso feeling the same way, thus ignoring u intentionally.

Kira

larryk SG

Kira, thanks for all your prompt reply. Actually I have already asked her out cos’ she stays quite near me. She agreed but we havn’t fix on a date yet. Hopefully it’ll turn out well.

Ito_^ SG

good luck. may it be soon, or maybe can set it near valentine's day. Laughing

ps: im ito, not kira.

Kira

Mysteria SG

Good luck Exclamation Smile

ptw SG

Must try and also be patient.

larryk SG

Alright I’ll be patient. Thanguys. But sometimes I’m pretty discourage when she ignores me. Yet other times she’s quite friendly. Anyone knows why? Ito, sorry but whats Kira?

asdfzhao SG

enemy of L Very Happy

dokono SG

Why haven't you all fixed a date yet? What sort of excuses she gave you?

doko

hisoka SG

its hacker from gsd lah

NewAge SG

why does i see Kira trying to help L. Aren’t they enemy who are supposed to die in the end?

larryk SG

Alright... I have no idea what you guys are talking about.. Lol.. Thanks for your help and if you hav anythin to share I would appreciate it v much... Very Happy

larryk SG

Hi Doko....

She didnt really gave me any excuses la.. We just agreed to go out but havnt decide on a date yet... But the prob is i'm trying to talk to her more via sms or online to catch up with her and know more bout her so dat if we really go out I will know what to say... But sometimes she jus seems very cold to me and 99% I am the one initiating a conversation and it discourages me sometimes...

dokono SG

To me this is bad.

How is she cold to you? Never reply sms? Any examples?

doko

Ito_^ SG

no no. dats movie. L and Kira are friends in real life. Laughing

anyways.. back to topic.

now dat u mention dat i think she dun take u seriously at all. juz dat since u wanted to tok with her so she play along lor. try setting up some dates and maybe she might push em away with some excuse.. like.. sorry, i busy another time can? but never say when.

but at least u'll noe wus going on in her mind, roughly, i think. Very Happy

Kira

nightsky87 SG

Maybe, she just wants to be friends?

N

larryk SG

hmm.. she will reply only once or twice when i sms her and she’ll stop after dat.. Online it’s abit better la.. On some days she talk nicely but on others she’ll take a long time to reply and after that stop