learned that one of the friend was a big liar. let's call this
friend 'B' that was one year ago, act like nothing happen but
couldn't get out of this recently. one year ago, this fren was
chasing a girl, 'A'. as I close kinda 'close' to A and he found
out, guess what he did. 'A' came to me and said this friend said I
liked her from behind, and had tried to stop her and my friend
together out of jealousy. I was shocked. None of it was true. I
dunno why did he create a lie involving me.
Not only that, 'B' has big mouth also. Whatever I said to him that
suppose to be the secret that I trust to him, I will heard back to
with my own ear just within 1 day!. As got one time i told her i
like 'C', ask him to keep it as a secret. 'C' then few days later
gave a very cold shoulder to me, with the rumours flying around
that I like 'C'. Judging from the incident about 'A', he might have
added something. I don't think a girl will give a cold shoulder
just because she knows that u like her?
There's one time I have jokingly tell him that I liked 'D'. must
testing. true enough, just half day only I can hear another fren
asking me back "U liked 'D' ha?"
This friend even had create a lie to me about a girl who likes to
watch porn, just to create a bad image about her, where i first
believe him, and later i found out it was just a lie. It seems that
he likes to create a lie just to make a friend had a bad impression
about a friend, some kind of his hobby. Kinda big mouth too.
Now, there's a few girl that he is close with will give a cold
shoulder. I wonder if he is behind all this. there's are countless
of event with I suspect.
While all this happen, he continued to be my very good friend like
nothing happened. He said he had really keep the secret that I like
'C', where I had a friend, 'E', who already told me that 'C' was
the one who told him, and 'C' told 'E' that I had told everyone
that I like 'C' (just to make him feel freely to talk about it to
everyone because 'i had told everyone myself, so it's not a
secret).
Now, what should I do with this friend? Ignore him? Felt he is very
dangerous, the more I am with him, the more not true rumours about
me that was created by himself will reach another friend's ear,
giving them a bad impression about me. His tactic was so advanced
that I had believed what he said to me about others before, so it's
most likely they will believe him. He's good at it.
If the majority think I should ignore him and break the friendship,
i will follow. In fact, I feel like 'kenakan' him 'balik'.
