me still single in my mid 20s

last SG · 2007-01-06T19:28:33+00:00

haha... hopefully all goes well...we can introduce this forum to densha to cry out his woes haha. doko

january SG

same old story of never had a gf before.....

i seriously dun believe in fate and destiny crap.....

i know its up to me to really improve myself and be more daring to know girls................

but i dun dare to approach girls, ask girls to be friends type... has been waiting for me to become more confident at knowing girls but has not succeed yet....... still feeling envy of others and sad about my plight once a while.....

here is some plans i have thought up. first, is to continue to pressure myself to know girls by approaching girls to be friends in school or outside world ( which i dun dare) the second way is to try to go for dating and social agencies.... fourth is to go and read more dating books and love books.....

last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right)

lastly... to all guys who are like me.... dun believe in fate thing..... u got to really take accountability in life...... i noe some pple never do much but still can meet their gf by fate or whatever u call it..... but do u think u will be so lucky like these guys..... there is no free lunch... one has to work if he wants to achieve his goal...

Herzog_Zwei SG

You havn’t ask those in the 50s and still single guys…

dragg SG

join sds.

there are nice girls there too.

aRcTiC_sTaR SG

Crying or Very sad

Leave it up to fate TS... Someday, oneday, it will happen =)

Tissot1853 SG

it is pathetic if man have to develop a contigency plan to get a life partner..

work hard to improve on oneself.. "boyfren/husband qualities" I am sure gals will come knocking on yur doors.. Rolling Eyes

Ito_^ SG

u got go meh? how u noe? i tot sds close down already?

MS SG

Hi TS, I really agree with Tissot.

Improve on yourself and girls will start knocking on your door. Relationship is not like work where a contingency plan can be drafted and executed like a corporate buy-over or military attack. Girls are very wierd creatures if we are to view them from the viewpt of a guy.

Let nature come its way. A GF should also be your best friend.

BrUtUs SG

no gf then do something abt it lo... mid 20s no gf also no big deal... u can spend the time to improve ur life and make urself successful... but in the mean time can know more gal frens and improve ur socio skills...

dakkon_blackblade SG

I’m rather in the same situation as you, but it is also partly because I don’t like to do things on impulse, so I’d rather observe the girl’s character before I decide to go for her or not. So far I haven’t really met any girl who makes me feel it’s worth sacrificing my freedom for.

Herzog_Zwei SG

Unfortunately, if you are fifty and havn't found a soulmate, kindly forget it. If anyone is looking to be in the assasin line or even a commercial spy, forget about getting into a proper relationship.

browniebaobao SG

'buy' a vietnam wife? Rolling Eyes

hmm.. i think guys really have to pressure themselves so much when they are in their mid or late 30s lor..

coz age is not a problem to a man when it comes to marriage ba.

it's the ladies who have to panic tho..

let nature take its course ba..

the best thing comes when you least expected it.

M©+square SG

So what are you doing to do about it?

Deportivo SG

maybe you DoTA too muched?

Question

leo-kun SG

me too no heart ache over it life still goes on

lonestar86 SG

dun worry man..
i'm sure eventually you will find ur Miss Right..
Good luck and all the best..

soulwinner SG

Tell U what, no GF nevermind just know how to get along with female friend... Soon out later u will get one.. Cool

dragg SG

lots of people have proved that you can never be sure.

gno2 SG

haa me also in my mid 20s with no gf.

mayb we can form a club haa..

aRcTiC_sTaR SG

/signs up.

<Precious> SG

20s oni complain.....! U r still a young punk!!! Rolling Eyes