proofs come from threads like this http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=220485
and especially this post
Originally posted by milk15:
Guys & Gals, its call players. Its just a secret sex game that
everyone play. No commitments...... Nobody calls that what "sex
buddy". HAIX.... Mr. Green
and this
Originally posted by jaimeyeo:
yes, so many names for what. got feel, just do it. so many baggage.
those who wants to do it, will do it, those who cannot handle it,
stay out of it.
and the many many stories told on irc.