Originally posted by Agenda:
Everytime I see her online, I feel the urge to give a nudge then
strike up a conversation. Whenever I flip through my phonebook, I
feel a need to send a little message.
But what for? She's never gonna like me anyway,
She's already got someone better and I'm not even fit to being a
third party let alone fit enough to be with her
I wanna erase her from my memories but I can't bear to do it, And
everytime I tell myself someone else will eventually come into my
life then I think of her which makes me wanna call her up and
all.
I know my efforts are probably all futile but I just can't forget
her so easily.
I think that's the problem for most people who post in AA(me
included). We will post a question here wondering if that someone
likes us, or talk about our failed relationships etc. One common
trend is that we like so-and-so, or we think of so-and-so, but we
think that it may not be worth our while to go and approach that
person or something, because of various reasons.
THAT, actually is our problem, and not whether the person like us
or not. When we do something, we have to think of million and one
things first, before we dare even take that first step. But, think
about it: If we had taken that first step, such as talking to
her/him, SMS/MSN or whatever, won't it have solve a lot of
problems? Do not neglect the power of 1 small step. It usually is
the step to big things and accomplishments. Just ask those who are
brave enough to approach people they like, and now is soaked in
bliss of love.
For the TS, since the girl already has a bf, just let it be. The
chance of chasing her was long gone..May u find another better
one.
