2 weeks ago i started work in this company. My boss (not boss in
whole company, but my department whom i work report directly to) is
a guy in his 50s.
Over the weeks i realise some traits of him which bothers me. he
seems to want to be seen with me. Example, he frequently says lets
go for coffee in the middle of work. To confirm this, yesteray i
was really pissed off. At 1, my collegues and i wanted 2 go
lunch.Since i had completed all my work except one tiny portion
which i had not done, cos on that i needed my boss assistance and
he was too busy. So since he on the line, i wrote a note tell him i
going 4 lunch and put the note in front of him. He tore up the
note, and said he will complete that report with me(meaning dun go
lunch).So my colleagues went ahead. Guess what.I waited 1/2 hour
but he did not teach me that report(which was really very very
unimportant)He was doing other things.Instead of letting me go eat
1st, he rather i wait 4 him.1/2 later, he tell me:''ok, lets go
lunch!'' I was so angry i told him no no, i dun feel like eating
liao, u go ahead.He insisted and say to go with him canteen find my
colleagues. So we walked to canteen. Along the way, i wanted to go
the loo, so i told my boss go canteen 1st.(cos i also want to make
phone call)he keep insisting he will wait 4 me outside the toilet.
I was so angry.
Sometimes after work i say goodbye to them, he will say:gg off?
lets walk together loh.
a few times off office hours he call me to tell me the to-do list
for next day, which basically were common sense everyday do
things.
I feel very uncomfortable cos i am new comer, i dun wish ppl
thought i am the one stick to him or curry favor him or worse, his
mistress blah blah
Please advise, cos i really like this job and my colleagues are
great
