Originally posted by cirruslogic:
I am already 36 and I do not have a girlfriend. The girl I still
think about is not interested in me. I think it is because I am not
good looking and I'm not rich like her previous boyfriend.
For that matter I notice that girls don't look at me. I don't know
what is wrong with me. Maybe it's my eye brows being too thick, or
my face is too big. I just don't know why.
How can I get over this and not be sad about not having a
girlfriend.
My uncle has a girlfriend at 50... soon to be
wife. He too was never rich...
But I think some factors will definitely help you if you can
acquire them...
MONEY - to burn
LOOKS - to kill
COURAGE - to approach
STYLE - to impress
Dress better than you can afford. Burn off the belly. Be sociable
and network around. Present yourself confidently.
Sadly, we never really get far from these social
indicators...
The key is to work on yourself first, then present the
finished product to the opposite sex.
Try this attraction test: Pretend you are a
woman... you are gorgeous, you have ten suitors at any one time...
you work hard to keep in shape, pay attention to fashion, and still
have to work to support your parents....
NOW from this point of
view, look at your male self...
What do you see?
I don't know what you see, but the goal is that you have to
fix yourself up to the point where a woman, looking from
her point of view, would feel attracted to you.
Pick up some men's magazines and look at the style they wear.
Observe some of the male idols women love.
I don't know whether the woman of your dreams goes for those types,
but you can bet that if you adopt some of they're style and
attitude, your chances of attracting a girlfriend
increases.
And if all else fails... the other way to happiness is to
release your desire for a partner... allow
yourself to enjoy the freedom of being single.
And if you choose this path... I suggest you study the Buddhist philosophy.
Good luck, Cirrus.
