pup,
it really depends on the situation
.. when you wait knowing that
its hopeless, thats stupid or some may say romantic
.
Actually when u come to think about it, most ROMANTIC acts are
STUPID in one way or another
.
Romeo and Juliet? Killed themselves for love
romantic? Yes.
Stupid? Yes too.
Throwing away all that you have worked for, moving to a foreign
land just for your partner
romantic? Yes. Stupid? In a way,
yes.
It all depends on your point of view.
When theres some hope, hold on, wait for her/him. When hopes
gone, let go move on.