mid of next year is only a couple more months away.
If you guys cannot hold out till then.. what's the point of pushing
it now.
Sides, as you calculated. you are putting in alot of investment.
How about her? Is she expecting you to pay for everything? If
that's the case, I would be darn sweet to you over the net too..
Now, put it this way, some of the forum members had also
highlighted, that once you start paying out your nose for this trip
and if the relationship turn serious. This would set the precedent
and standard for all other interactions. ie It might become
expected that you are the one who will have to put in the effort
and money to make this girl happy of she is gonna mention that you
shipped her half way across the globe on your student allowance
just to be with her and how romantic if you were to continue
this.
Take it as a test to see what she really like since you are so
serious bout a girl you only met for a month and the rest of the
time is online.
Anyways, you must have a hugh allowance to even think of paying for
someone's vacation. On the flip side, if I am the girl, unless the
guy is my bf, I would not take up the paid trip. If I were to go,
it would be on my expense. But it depends on the circumstance and
the girl. Seriously, we do not know the exact details. So these are
just general comments. As another forum member said, its your
money. You spend it as you see fit. We can't tell you or guarantee
whatever the outcome. But we wish you good luck.
