Recently, I got to know this gal from my office better through
work, though we were colleagues for more than a year now. Somehow,
I have slowly developed a liking for her but I have my fair share
of doubts whether this will lead to anywhere...
She is 2 years older than me, at 32 ; first impression of her is
one who is immaculate, pretty and well-educated (she's holding
masters degree). Understand from my colleagues and through my own
observation is that she can be quite stubborn in her own ways and
has high expectations of the things she does etc.. One may think
she is one stereo-type Singapore gal with high expectations of life
and life partner as well...Though she can still be quite easy to
get along with. She is a Christian who probably holds a strong
belief in her faith and prefer to date a believer also...
I know that office romance can be quite tricky and not easy to
handle. I am also not sure whether she feels anything for me, but I
am trying hard to control my feelings more so than ever....frankly,
my rational mind tells me that she is not the ideal kind of gal for
me, but my heart refuse to go in tandem.
I guess its troubling me now and I really hope this does not affect
my concentration in work...maybe I should just distance myself from
her (quite hard cos we are in the same team etc...)
I just need to get this off my heart though hope to hear some
advice here....
