I would gather 80% of topics here would be guys who after a
breakup seems to be clinging on...
the general feel is that Modern guys are either insecure or imature
to deal with relationship.
yes, mentally, gals do mature faster (in fact, 2 yrs) but it seems
that modern guys fare much worse than this mental gap.
I am not generalising but on the whole, it seems that guys are
lacking the social skills in knowing how to chat with a lady, how
to be a gentleman, and how to end a relationship.
Yes, these are things that are not learned from books or from a
soulmate but hey, if the gal can end it so professionally, surely,
a guy can do that too.
Really, after reading most of the posts, guys seems most brittle
when it comes to R/S.