Originally posted by Perception:
I know perhaps i should let her know me better first. The problem
with me is that i just do not have the guts to call a girl out of a
sudden and just chat with her. My mind will literally turn blank
and the conversation will perhaps end up in a deadlock. I've been
trying to have a group outing where friends we both know comes out
together just to make her feel more comfortable.
I've never been in any relationship before and my more reserved way
of getting a girl is probably due to being turned down before once
a couple of years back.
2 of my friends said that she, not replying sms asking her to go
out is probably a way of her trying to tell me that she's not
interested in me. I'm thinking of confessing to her on the
last day of the year but this might not be a wise thing to
do as it might result in a catastrophic ending of her ignoring me
for the rest of my life. [/b]
Man, i would suggest that its better not to do that. You had
barely known her, and your understanding of her is basically next
to zilch. Telling her that is the same as kissing your chances of
knowing her better next time goodbye. Don't be impatient. Its too
early to tell if she's interested in u or not. The late or no
sms'es replies, I had learnt from experience, is NOT a good way to
indicate if she's interested in u or not. Look at where u and her
are now in this stage of friendship.
Look, she is probably afraid, because she doesn't know you well,
and here you are, smsing her, and trying to confess to her. You
wanting to get a group outing is good, because in a group, she will
feel less inhabited, and that will be a good chance to ask her out
alone the next time, after she knows u better during the group
outing. Pls try to talk to her, and know her a little more, during
the group outing.
And, be more confident of urself. Gals, unfortuntately, tend to
like guys who can express themselves well, and are confident of
themselves. Being shy and not letting the other person know u well
won't win u her heart. Jia You!! U can do it!
