Confuse... friend or can be more than a friend

last SG · 2006-12-26T12:00:06+00:00

I say just ask her... it sure beats guessing and hoping that you guessed correctly... what happens if she's really shy, and u presume she's not interested...

abcbeck SG

going out with a girl quite a number of times , 5 - 6 times 1 on 1 dating, for dinner movies shopping sightseeing.

even though I have never express my intentions verbally before to her, I believe she knows about it, with all my gestures, small little gifts, sweet smses.....

confuse part , does she really interested in me, I mean would any girl go out with someone just bcos I ask her out, and she find it too shy to decline and just out with me...

I also cant find signs on her wanting to go beyond than a friend, which I am hesistating to ask her to be my girl...

What should I do, go straight to the point? ask her?

fudgester SG

How long have you known her?

xShevchenkox SG

he already say liao..5 to 6 times...

This is call many meh?

abcbeck SG

not many(did I say?)... known for more than a year, lately I ask her out

pwnz0r SG

I think he meant, how long did he know her before asking her out. I mean, personally as a friend rather that treated as a prospect.

In truth, it is hard to determine. But from what you have told me, nothing negative is shown. I think should be ok, if she continually doesn't mind meeting with you and spending time with you.

Just remember, don't take too long, neither do you want to rush it. It is hard to judge, but just go naturally.

xShevchenkox SG

opps...l am sorry abt that...eyes see wrongly... Laughing

paiseh paiseh

fudgester SG

I was referring to the length of time.

'5 to 6 times' can range anywhere from a few weeks to a few years. Rolling Eyes

dragg SG

just ask.

the worst thing is to keep yourself guessing.

zheshi SG

I think if a ger is interested in you, more or less you could feel it de. Do you u feel anything at the mommentx

Bontakun SG

You can opt to go straight to the point or go out with her more and use the opportunities to get to know her even better so you can understand what is she like, how she behaves and such. By then you know if she's more receptive to your actions or not.

mistyblue SG

2nd that.

Bontakun SG

I initially felt a rumbling in my stomach. Laughing

Aaron8105 SG

nowadaes,,,u know…girls are strightforward..u must faster take action..before some one stead wit her.girls like strightforward guys…if u dun dare tell face to face…sms will do..

choco B SG

Do a big DECLARATION OF AFFECTION thing
e.g. date her out on NYE, tell her you want to usher the new year with SOMEONE SPECIAL, someone really "close to you" , make it really romantic n etc. Make it real obvious then you see how she respond - if she run far away then too bad lo Laughing

dokono SG

Relax.

Take your time. Don't put pressure on yourself. She may be considering you. Give her time also. Enjoy the date while you can. It's precisely because of your desire to get attached that can drive people away. Focus on the fun. Give yourself a few more dates.

doko

abcbeck SG

This seems like a good idea

dokono SG

How is her response to you so far? Did she touch you?

doko

abcbeck SG

no Sad , I feel she very shy leh

dokono SG

but not shy enough to go out with you one on one?

so far not even a single touch?

doko

abcbeck SG

never touch me sob sob