in any religion, there r bound to be extremists. Its just
unfortunate dat ur fren happens to be one of them. Most of the
time, these pple r like "living in their own world" cos they hv
been "brainwashed" too much.
hence,u shd tell ur fren dat if she really treats u as a true fren,
she shd respect ur wishes and not make u do things against ur will.
if she cant do dat, then prob its best to minimise contact wif
her.
dont bother abt wat ur fren and her church members think of you.
once u break away from them, its only a matter of time they will
forget u(hopefully). everyone has their right to choose how they
want to live their life. y shd u be unhappy for the sake of
pleasing others?