lexibabe SG hi, i hope someone can help me out here.. i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only. the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt? i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped... its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour? thanks a million
ditzy SG What! 2nd time out and he gets to kiss you. And he got gf somemore, still tell you he keeping his options open! Grrr, tell him don't call you, you'll call him.
ditzy SG If you want sweet revenge, meet him a third time, get his gf's contact secretly, and let the games begin.
lexibabe SG player means what? i really get disturbed by this and well... to tell the truth... we went clubbing the second time round and i was tipsy when he say all this things... and the next day he called me and chatted with me and tell me abt his past gf things and his idea of a relationship... whats the point?
ditzy SG Girls are liddat one, they tell you they don't, its totally wrong, its not right, they won't do this. End of the day, they do everything else contrary to the above.
lexibabe SG not really lar. anyways i didnt like it but if he is true than i will accpect him but now he seems to be not
Ito_^ SG Originally posted by lexibabe: hi, i hope someone can help me out here.. i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only. the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt? i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped... its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour? thanks a million quite funny
charlemagne SG Clubbing you say? Well, answer's there right in front of you. He's treating you like a doormat, but of course if you tell him off like that, he'd reply you back, what makes you think you're so special? ~WhiteChicks Wayan Brothers~
mistyblue SG your last statement ... straight-forward... ermm... if that's the case, you would not be asking for advice.
lexibabe SG u are rite.. i should not be stupid rite? which i think i am being rite now. i think its all not so worth for his gf but anyways i don like it lar. who would like being forced to kiss? that is ridiculous and i mean what i say
lexibabe SG actually advice in seeing what sort of person he is basing on the things that he did. i still feel that even i am straight forward there will be times when i will be confused. rite? and i am a confused kid....
lexibabe SG anyways, thanks for pointing to me that he is really a player in disguse. i pity his poor gf. thanks people
mistyblue SG I find it strange you cannot tell ... we are far removed from your experience and situation. so whatever we tell you is an extrapolation of your posts.
lexibabe SG actually its not strange when you cannot tell and need advices cause when u are in the situtaion, things tend to cloud your mind.