it sucks... but life is such and i accept it

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Ristar SG

RETARDED_MORON, it will help if u actually use your brains for a while.

if i have to hold anyone's hand and do a walkthrough with them from A to Z, then perhaps the gal isnt attracted to them... but to the person they model. ME!

in addition, everything is scenario based. there is no one method to rule them all, despite wat u imply. Rolling Eyes

say wat u will. the point of this thread is simply: many gals like to be treated like sh!t, no matter how adamantly they will contradict this statement. give them more attention than they deserve, and they simply turn tail and run.

Gackt247 SG

Woohoo.. Shocked Laughing

dokono SG

This is what you do.

Do not, EVER, place women as the first priority in your life.

Think about it, guys. If your whole life revolves just around a woman/women, don't it seem that you have no life? Life is more than just women. You come into this world alone. You go out alone.

There are more interesting things in life than just chasing skirts...unless of course, you enjoy in being a player and getting laid. But that doesn't mean the girl likes you. The girl enjoys getting laid, too. The girl has to like you for your style. Otherwise, you can continue to be an actor your whole life thinking of lame lines to entertain them or acting cool your whole life.

Enjoy life. Enjoy music, philosophy, photography, art, soccer, business, dancing, music, wrestling, etc whatever that interests you.

Getting women don't make your life better. Sometimes, they can piss you off. Sometimes they can frustrate you. Sometimes, you can be so attached to this girl that you want your freedom so badly...the freedom to meet your guy friends.

Don't get me wrong. Im not saying don't get any girls at all. What Im saying is many people place too much pressure on themselves to get a result...which is to get attached. Have a no-result focused mentality. Learn not to depend on them. Sometimes people get too focused on results that they focus on the wrong things in life, instead of the process.

The irony in life is that when you lose focus on girls, they come to you.

doko

ifish SG

pretty good advice... at least for me...

Thanks Doko

dakkon_blackblade SG

So in short it's good for guys to play hard to get? Laughing

rainee SG

Originally posted by Ristar:
RETARDED_MORON, it will help if u actually use your brains for a while.

if i have to hold anyone's hand and do a walkthrough with them from A to Z, then perhaps the gal isnt attracted to them... but to the person they model. [b]ME!

in addition, everything is scenario based. there is no one method to rule them all, despite wat u imply. Rolling Eyes

say wat u will. the point of this thread is simply: many gals like to be treated like sh!t, no matter how adamantly they will contradict this statement. give them more attention than they deserve, and they simply turn tail and run.[/b]

i m a girl, and i disagree wif wat you said in the last paragraph Laughing

Ristar SG

Laughing i like girls. so, i'll let u disagree all u want... come to think of it, would u like to tell me why in the privacy of PMs or even MSN? Wink

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i do not think that dokono is saying play hard to get. i think that he is just saying dun give em too much attention. wat i've always been saying.

ifish SG

no no..
i think wat doko trying to say is that do it because of the process and not because of the end product

dokono SG

Im saying if you focus too much on chasing girls, you are placing too much importance on them. Slowly, learn to socialise with people and the opposite sex, with no aim in mind. Just enjoy the process. Eventually, find someone who likes you. There's no need for tactics and tricks. Eventually the girl will know your real person. And if you cannot stand the test of time, she will see through you and say goodbye. She has to like you from the start.

doko

Ito_^ SG

sui yuan, sui xing, sui he.

mayday80 SG

Apparently , girls I treated well tended to act exactly like that and the ones that I kinda ignored seemed to love just the lil' bit of attention I gave to them. Strange but true. Question

Ristar SG

i think that its just a reply that she thinks is 'correct'.

why?

ppl arent supposed to like ppl who treat them like sh!t. but they do, so...

mind games. then again, only the weak will react to it, and be so defensive. Wink

Originally posted by dokono:

Im saying if you focus too much on chasing girls, you are placing too much importance on them. Slowly, learn to socialise with people and the opposite sex, with no aim in mind. Just enjoy the process. Eventually, find someone who likes you. There's no need for tactics and tricks. Eventually the girl will know your real person. And if you cannot stand the test of time, she will see through you and say goodbye. She has to like you from the start.

doko

slowly? dokono amigo Laughing , one minute wasted is too much. how do u "enjoy" the process when u dun eat a piece of meat dangling in front of u all day?

eventually.

friend, i like u already. please continue with all these slowly eventually things. it just means more meat for the rest of us.

"like you from the start"

Laughing so, if a gal likes a guy from the start, does it mean that she'll be his gf, and wife? percentage is very low. and even after becoming wife, wat are the chances of a divorce?

since there is no such thing as true love (thanks to the lovely media that educates the masses and make it so cheap, and make ppl mindless bimbos), and guys arent the only ones enjoying the screwing, i'll say, "ROE: Weapons Free, fire at will!"

thank you very much.

ifish SG

If you love the person because of the end product which are the stuff under her clothes, its pointless falling in love.

I'm not saying that when the gal like the guy, she will be his gf and wife.. afterall, its pointless to love her if you urself does not like her. Unless of course u chasing after the end product.

To me love is more than that... Its about sharing, caring and enjoying each other company. You should like a girl for what she is and not what she have. So should the girl. Afterall if we talking about marriage, would she be having the same thing 30 years later what she have now? Thats my personal opinion. Of course, different people do have different definition.

As for the mass media thingy, doesnt anybody ever told you that the media are full of lies.

Enjoy the process, and not the end product

Bontakun SG

Though i cannot agree on most part, but hey! Its useful nonetheless. Mr. Green

Ristar SG

haha... wat a way to put it. tsk. trying to put me down too. wow. so impressive.

if u r perceptive enough.

yes, love is all about sharing, caring, enjoying each other's company, all that and more. but wat is it now?

just an excuse for guys to get close to gals and screw them, many times, then throw them away. if they dun get married, and live together lovingly happily till one of them dies, this "love" crap can be discounted because it isnt.

besides, she is probably more experienced than u, get wat i mean? how special can the act of love making be then? all a pack of lies, just verbal trash that needs to be discarded.

yes, she wouldnt be the same 30 years later. same goes for u, so, enjoy now.

but if u dun eat all these meat hanging around, in a cruel world, somebody would. might as well be u. Laughing

besides, if u really love the girl, u will behave weird. and if her treshold for weirdness is low, u wont be getting the one that "makes your heart pound wildly and make u feel so light headed". hence my emphasis on point number 7, in my first post.

btw, u need SOMEBODY to tell u that the media is full of lies?

does it work? yes.

pre-marital sex = normal, sex = normal, affair = normal, shotgun = normal, gal behaving like an a$$ = normal (ye man EVERYTHING), mindless brain numbing programmes = normal.

how many bimbos u see? worst part is, they go to clubs, slime guys and get slimed, do a lot of casual screwing, then bloody act high class in front of u in the day time. some would be arrogant enough to say that they r "picky" when it comes to making frens.

disgusting.

ifish SG

well.. i really dont have much things to say if thats your mindset. What i could suggest you to do now is to go out, and make more female friends for the sake of really being friends with them and not what you want inside their clothes.

In every species, there's the good and the bad

Ristar SG

Laughing

in the human race, theres the simple and the sophisicated.

if u r blind enough not to see all these facts, then so be it.

and yes, i have tons of female frens already. thank you very much for your unnecessary concern.

lageihsif SG

so are most of ur female frens those act high class kind of ppl?

ifish SG

and yes. i do have female friends who are bimbo and @ssholes.

what im trying to say here is that.. you are just stereotyping and not every girls are like that. The decent and innocent still DO exist

dokono SG

It seems you missed my point and of course proved it by saying you want to enjoy as much "meat" as you want. I mean, that's your life, right? Like I said in my previous post, if you want to continue to have as much "meat" as you want, which is to keep getting laid as your hobby, then so be it. What Im saying is that there is more to life than just getting laid, than just getting more meat in your definition. Again, your focus in life is still women, not yourself. But if that's your life, Im not going to stop you.

You know what? The girl also likes it. She is also using you if you have casual sex with her. You are also her toyboy. I know, you want to enjoy as many girls as you want. That's your aim. But don't bring back unwanted pregnancies or sexually-transmitted diseases. Don't regret it.

When the girl likes you for you, for who you really are, what is your personality like, your way of doing things, she is going to follow you for the rest of your life, provided you don't try to control her and be possessive. The love is already there. You don't need those stupid tactics anymore. That's why I say enjoy the process of making female friends and don't have any aim in mind, ironically, you will be much more attractive when you don't have that aim.

Say what you will, my stand is clear.

doko

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