A friend Handicapped in Relationships with Gals.Suggestions?

last SG · 2006-11-25T02:06:20+00:00

something that another guy would not hesitate on, it might be a big reason why he's still single till now. he needs to reach out to take what he wants and un...

browniebaobao SG

duno him personally so cannot jump to conclusion..

intro him to me lah~~ then i will tell u wat's wrong with him. Embarassed

pierre^^ SG

eh BBB u wan to gao Jie Di Lian ah

charlemagne SG

I'll vouch for that.

The more he is stressed, the more he will be pushed to the edge in trying to get one.

This will probably lead him into desperation which potentially show in his actions and behavior, while then will backfire on himself.

Go slow, 26 is after all never a late age to go back to ground zero.

Meilin86 SG

His personalities sometimes like the actor(Doctor)act in He Lang chun(Holland Village) with Chen Li Ping. That doctor like Chen LiPing very much but he always got this stammering problem.

Remember? Surprised

browniebaobao SG

soli hor, im younger than him. Laughing

Jie di lian is impossible for me.

browniebaobao SG

very nice guy wor. Embarassed

pierre^^ SG

den ppl always call u Ah Ma?

wait is it another person??? ponders...

dokono SG

Hey

Is Kenny the one from South Park? "Oh my God, they killed Kenny!" Mr. Green

Hmm...Can you post a pic of him and his vital stats? Is he short or tall? Fat or thin? Ugly or handsome? Average?

Seriously, I think he should not rush into a relationship for the sake of one. There will be one for him one day. Just tell him to focus on his career and he will have a lot of options in the future. And also enjoy his life. Life is short.

He must learn how to talk. He can continue being the nice gentleman but will not accept 2nd class treatment from any girl. There are many courses on how to talk. For a start, he can go join an insurance or mlm company to be a salesman. Salesman are the best talkers. Dress well and exercise well. Sleep well. Live each day as if it is the last day.

doko

browniebaobao SG

kns lah u!!

Ah Ma is Ah Ma!

ple here call me bbb hor. Rolling Eyes

browniebaobao SG

In red, I seriously dun encourage that.

pierre^^ SG

okok

btw fann wong on tv nw

fann... Embarassed

browniebaobao SG

im anti-fann. Rolling Eyes

pierre^^ SG

too bad =x

i m pro-fann

laosu SG

Meilin..
Basically I think your this guy friend "tried" too hard.

See it in another way. You are attached to another guy and he knows that it's sort of "impossible" between you two so that he can "act" himself. I suspect that he might have sort of unable to be himself when he knows other girls who are "available". In another word, I think he's too tensed when facing single girls.

Get him to socialised more and meet more people be it guys or gals. It'll boost up his social skill and hense his confidence level. Guys who are more quiet and reserve will seemed unconfidence in front of girls and these kind of guys will be more "lugi" when it comes to chasing girls.

dokono SG

About the picture part, ok, Im just kidding.

But:

Im not joking you know.

I do encourage him to be a honest and ethical Professional Salesman. It is about learning the skills of selling yourself and doing up a good image. Sales is about work ethic. Sales is about presenting yourself. You need to present yourself well in front of people, male and females alike. It is the same with women. You need to sell yourself. But I will not talk more about this topic in Aunt Agony forum unless this is the MLM forum.

An alternative would be joining a toastmaster's club to learn about public speaking. The local CC should have schedules. He just need to break his mental barrier to achieve greater heights.

doko

browniebaobao SG

learn to speak up yes..

ask him do sales when he cant even speak well is machiam asking him go bang wall. Many sales ple earn on commission. No sales = eat wind.

pierre^^ SG

aiya, lets jus ask merlin to set up a date for BBB and Kenny

den perhaps

fireworks

maybe bbb will tink kenny is andy lookalike

dokono SG

Well, I have heard of people doing well in sales line even when they have a speech problem. There are also many kinds of sales like retail sales or sales with basic allowance plus commissions. From a stuttering person to one who can speak normally, there are successful cases.

It's not whether you will eat wind or not. It's how much you desire to improve yourself. It's whether you want it or not. You will be forced to break out of your comfort zone.

doko

SpeedStar SG

x2...haha maybe there will be firework between you two.. bbb jia you ~! Razz

SpeedStar SG

ok wat, I also nice guy but dun have gf..haha Smile

But on a serious note, what he need to have training to socialise with more ppl so he will learn how to express more. And ask him to lower down his expectation and I believe he can find a partner easily. Wink

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