i think its not easy to be the TRADITIONAL type of guy, guy used
to be....
afterall things change with time...it not easy to be parents, tough
to be teachers, not easy to be children, not easy to be man and its
also not easy to be woman
so..... it is not easy to be anything these days....even the
animals are not spared....many are at risk of being
extinct.....maybe also not easy to be ghost... 
hence....don't worry, be Happy.....