I agree...
sometimes when i read threads like this makes me think that ppl are
looking for "walkthroughs" (like in some RPG games) in
love/relationships...
but love/relationships have NO "walkthroughs" they need hard work,
trials and errors. we can't be afraid of screwups if not we'll
never reap the sweet rewards.
there's no shortcut in love (or general day to day relation with
ppl)