Originally posted by scuderiaboy:
thanks for yr advise everyone!
hmm lemme clarify some things. 1stly[b] i cannot sit with
her as there are her other grp of friends sitting
wif her. She always is either in between them or
she seats at the corner and the other side are
occupied by her friends
another thing not
so easy going up and toking to her in class cause
its a seminar style lesson. prof is conducting lesson so of coz no
one goes up to someone in the other side of the class to talk. and
as soon as lesson ends everyone in the class leaves. so abit
problematic trying to know her thru class[/b]
Brother,
Don't mean to be condesending, but u a little too negative. To
suceed you need to visualise sucess. For example, all your reasons
for not approaching her in class really screams of excuses for not
approach her. I bet a million bucks you have 10 other reasons why u
can't approach her in the canteen another 10 for not doing it at
the bus stop and another 10 for why u cant do it in the
toilet.
So stop all the procrastination, make a commitment to yourself to
do the following the very next time you see her, and I mean the
very next time even if its like 5 minutes from now (irregardless of
time and place, with/without friends). If you fail to do this
commit to perish the thought of getting in her pants, as you
haven't even the balls to approach her.
i) establish eye-contact,
ii) then flash her a bright smile,
iii) if she returns your smile say Hi!... (what ever happens after
that either happens or don't its ok)
Simple and inocous right, thats all you do.
If you can't even do this, don't bother.
if you have achieved that, again commit to do a little more the
next time u see her again, but always :
i) establish eye contact
ii) smile
iii) use imagination
Comes a point when it will be natural for either you to talk to her
or for her to talk to you.
Good luck bro.
