All so much for one word...virginity?
If your definition of a r/s is a long-term one, then why do you
want the flesh for?
You also want the mind...someone who understands your thinking, who
helps you when you are in trouble, someone who sticks with you
through thick and thin, someone who displays qualities of
integrity, respect and trust.
If your gf cannot give you the trust she needs to earn from you, I
think you are better off being single.
doko
