cool off period

rayyeo SG

She said she gonna think about it.
Asked me if we should have cool off period and see how.
I agreed and told her not to give ourselves too long.
For the cooling down period, she asked to let her be alone.
i think to me is gone case already.
Sianx.

hopy SG

if its meant to be, it will be...

so y force?

missqi SG

So?
Move on.

BrUtUs SG

its 50-50 case... u better hope u did enuff last time...

rayyeo SG

of coz life still moves on.
But still, i'm wondering if we can salvage this r/s.
This is a 50 / 50 for me.

rayyeo SG

Have anyone been in my situation before...?

anhydrouscoppersulphate SG

last time she say want cool off then sayonara liao. it is sort of girl's way of saying i want to break with you Laughing Sad

dokono SG

100% correct.

Hit the nail on the head.

It's their secret code of language.

TS, don't place too much hope and go hustle other babes. It's time.

doko

M©+square SG

Because no one is silly enough to let go of 'things' which supposely belong to them.

It's natural for one to want to hold 'it' back.

Unfortunately, the 'things' in a relationship are people. And people do change, they have choices.
Which, makes it fortunate for some suffering in relationships.

Cheers

darknessfall SG

she wants to cool off...
you shld also take this time to think about the r/s, if she is worth it...

if she is really who you wan to spend your life with, continue to be nice to her...and hope that she will also think likewise...

sometimes, when you cool down and think, you will either realise how impt the person is, or how bad this person had been to you..

alvin-ncs SG

same sutiation... Crying or Very sad

rayyeo SG

Yeah, i'm taking this time to think properly. And i didn't msg her or call her.

How to be nice to her when we are in cooling off period?

blu_sky SG

so what are the things that you have thought? any conclusions?

Devil1976 SG

Yes.