wierd?!

F.raon.I.R SG

i have like this gal in my ex class for recently...well..we usually only tok abit when we see each other in sch,n in the elective class...otherwise its in those msn chats which i initiated...so she dunno that i like her...n i m usually quite shy n i dun make my feelings,intentions clear yet...coz i dun want to spoil the frenship so soon if it turns out that i gets rejected or wat..we've known each other for 1.5 yrs..didn't really go out individualy...only some gp outings..n not really close that type,she has a gp of very close frens,i have mine.
so asked her for dinner juz now..i noe it will be wierd for her to see my sms..coz..ya..
she replied is it i sent to the wrong person,she's not free...
kind of disappointed.. Crying or Very sad Sad
wat can i do man...it seems like i can't take a step further to make this frenship further to another stage coz chances r slim,she's very busy with her frens,sch work n cca..then gradually make my feelings clear to her..
the only time i have is the elective class...n those lecture time where i gaze at her frm far...

MohamedF SG

Laughing

*pat on back*

There there... try harder next time...

Rock^Star SG

ur fren is very polite. move on dude, u deserve better Very Happy

tt3 SG

ouch

sgboy2004 SG

try harder?

u mean press harder on the hp buttons is it?

browniebaobao SG

juz tell her u are serious in dating her.

ask her to give u a chance.

Devil1976 SG

Somehow I can't help but to feel this might be an indirect rejection...?

Is she usually a very blur girl, or a tactful and clear minded one...?

Anyway, I don't see much of what's going on between the both of you for her to be interested enough...?

F.raon.I.R SG

well..she's not blur..
n she told me she can't make it..but will go with me if she's free..

buses_galore SG

not as bad as my situation....totally no contact except for msn

zheshi SG

That not wierd. That mean u are being rejected. Dun be dishearted. Jia you

chihuahua24 SG

But what if shes really not free for the day you asked her for ? You got specify any date you want a dinner with her ?

F.raon.I.R SG

ya i i suppose she’s really not free..nv specify

Cpt.ZR SG

hmmm maybe you should try talking to her more often? hhaha… try to get closer lor… hahah beter luck!!!

BrUtUs SG

since fail once, try again... u need more interaction with her...

Lorry` SG

i dont think she really reject you, maybe she's really not free that day (i think)

Next time u ask her out, dont ask her over the phone, try askin face to face durin elective class ? Smile
Must plan and decide the events beforehand

Dont be disheartened, try again Wink

darknessfall SG

wow..i must say, you beat alot of guys out there already, with your courage!
good job dude! Wink

just reply her, the msg was meant for you! at least let her know your intention.. she may have reject you this time, but you nv really know the reason right?

The worst scenario is, she doesnt like you...
The middle scenario is, she just taken aback..not prepared.
the best scenario is, she is really busy that day..

out of 3, you have 2 chances of hitting the better options..try sounding her out in your next msn chat...

good luck! Wink

M©+square SG

This is suicide.

The more serious...the faster he dies. Laughing

dokono SG

I suggest you take a pinch of salt with what she say. Never pour so much energy into her yet. She is talking some nonsense to make you feel happy...ie patronising you.

You don't have to call her. If after so long, she doesn't call you back to ask you out, you can safely assume she doesn't feel for you much.

F.raon.I.R SG

thanks for the truthful n useful replies...
anyway...me n her r like frens who chat quite freely,we tease one another everytime..things like that..
but i quite agree with wat dokono said

dokono SG

Why? Did she reject you?