Finally Dev expand his postings. No thanks to MC or Yun.......
As for the TS, all I can say is: this is more of something to do
with yourself than the other parties. You have low confidence and
low self esteem. You feel inferior to others and always have in
mind you can never win.
Let me tell you something, all of them feel inferior too. No
kidding. They just use what they can do and guts to it do to mask
their inferiority. I myself am inferior in many ways. I am bad in
studies. I am gullible. I am not that atheletic compared to
muscular guys. There are sports I can't do well either. I am not
handsome or sexy. Neither am I tall or smart. I am not rich or
knowledgeable. I do not even think I can give people a sense of
trust or security. BUT I do my best anyway.
We all have inferiorities in ourselves. We acknowledge this fact
and make use of these "inferiorities " to learn and further improve
our strengths. My strength? Compassion, patience, understanding,
forgiving. I know my strengths and I improve them.
Still feel lowly? Cultivate virtues of character and values. Learn
to be more patient. Listen to how others behave or express
themselves. Observe people around you. Learn to be compassionate
and understanding. Learn to be forgiving. With a simple mind and a
good heart, we see everything around us in a MUCH simpler and more
colourful way and perspective.
Being too emotional? More like your compassion is being too focused
on BGR issues where you can use it for others. Like when someone
tells you of their problems, you can share their pain as you feel
it. You can also share their joy and strengthen relationships with
family and friends. Must it be reserved for BGR? You are belittling
and limiting your capabilities. You are focusing on something small
compared to a bigger picture.
People like you for who and what you are, not what you possess
materially. Be strong in character and be open to new things, be it
hard to swallow or bitter to taste. We all want love and you
possess a gift to give that. Learn more about yourself and discover
what you are capable of to help others and not just limit yourself
to just BGR alone.
Beers.
