how do u know if he's true?

last SG · 2006-10-17T00:18:44+00:00

hi there, i am listening to everyone here. u dun have to be so mean. if u can't be bothered, dun reply.

silent_lamb SG

i understand that i am the only one who can help myself the best. that’s why i wanna listen to the diff opinions here and make myself see things in other perspective. i do not want to live in my own world, seeing things in my own way, cos i may be wrong. i do not want to be blinded by love, that’s why i need advise.

mistyblue SG

you get upset for what? You can only hear good things meh? Then you are not ready for a lot of things especially in married life.

That's why you are not rational. Any advice will be thrown aside except those you think is going to "help" and you think that by doing "all those prove", you will feel more assured about your R/S. But all the prove in the world is nothing if there is just that little doubt in your mind eating away at your heart. You will always "torture" him with endless questions that's why he thinks you are xiao mei mei. Actually you are too young for him.

viciouskitty74 SG

18 year old nia....at that age, they still are not ready to take responsibility. thats why come here to try to find people to support her childishness.

If she was any smarter, she would have got that guy to sponsor her on some educational course and keep herself busy instead of thinking of all these nonsense.

She will see the sense, once she realised that men only know how to spend big money on other people but not herself when he takes her for granted.

mistyblue SG

There is no test for love except time.

Rock^Star SG

people are being harsh here becos so many don't want to listen to gd advice. Very Happy we're not saying u though.

u can't test ur bf at all with qns. he can lie. u can't test him simply becos he's nice to u. and u can;t test him when he's already screwed another gal.

same advice: once horny always horny. look for someone better. so many guys out there

dokono SG

Exactly. Spare a thought for him. You are the going to freak him out. But he is a real gentleman.

Ito_^ SG

why so many people thinks age is a measurement of maturity? Mad

viciouskitty74 SG

Then learn to accept that that you are childish. Go past that stage, even if you need to be led a bit.

Take the advises and respect even the differing opinions, learn to disregard the any mentions regards personal charater.

Only with interaction then you can grow. Blinding following instructions is like reading thru a textbook.

Only when a person is humble then you can respect yourself.

mistyblue SG

age is nota good measurment. But by the “prove” wanted to know if a person is true… I would qualify the person as one of those characters in Cheesy Long winded Taiwanese Teen Serial (ie the one with San Chai)

dokono SG

Haha… we can only help so much… after all, the decision is hers to make. What we are offering is different points of view.

viciouskitty74 SG

How often can we say: Wow, that 16 year old really mature. Very smart and responsibile.

mistyblue SG

yeah many kids now have enough cash from mommy and daddy to have abortions only mah. Responsibility is what sh!t also don’t know

Ito_^ SG

Very often we also say: omg. that old fag thinks he knows it all again.

silent_lamb SG

are personal attacks really neccessarily to help me?

Ito_^ SG

i've no bloody idea. sometimes i read oso feel abit dulan.

cannot imagine posting my probs here. only once.

but out of those extra crapping, some points do make sense.

viciouskitty74 SG

You really really want advice?

Then ask around for the folks that will really borther to meet up with you for kopi and talk to you face to face.

And No. I seriously dont think the guy is true.

Be true to yourself first, before you can know whether he is true to you.

Are you sure you just want to settle with his kinda behaviour to you? Are you happy with his behaviour to you.

viciouskitty74 SG

Maybe in your community. So far, I only see the old fags being right most of the time. And they take mistakes as a learning experience and grows closer and smarter because of it.

silent_lamb SG

if i reall have frens or ppl whom i can speak to, i won't be so pathetic to be here, getting myself insulted like that.

maybe im really hildish. i will stop posting. and bother ppl with my chilidish acts.

Sorry people. i appreciate all the things or advice given. thank you. Smile

dokono SG

haha… just give the points and let the girl choose what she wants. Im not going to force someone to accept my point of view. It’s going to waste a lot of energy. I m outta here since I have given mine.

M©+square SG

Is this 25 yr old man in this thread related to your previous thread?

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=214524

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