He is in fact a vey loving person inside, just that he can be
quite MCP and insists of what he thinks is right. Very stubborn.
And sometimes as much as I hate his lack of participation in what i
like, i appreciate the fact that being homely is a virtue in some
ways too... At least he is home playing games, not flirting around
in clubs every night... 
I choose to join him instead of forsaking him because of the game
coz i think there's nothing wrong with gaming. When you get so
addicted to something, there must be a reason. Your interest is
there. Men are little boys inside, so no point snatching his toys
from him and have him say," Mummy is a BAD mummy!!! I hate
Mummy!!!" I'd rather sit beside him and learn about what you can do
with the toys together...
But apparently, this little boy would rather play alone while mummy
stays in kitchen and cook... Like," Mummy, don't touch my toys, you
don't know how to play one la, and my friends are waiting for me
inside, i can't teach you now........... are my french fries
ready?" 
Overall, he is still a very great person within...
Just like any gamers, addiction is not by choice...
And like any girls, complaining is not by choice too!!!
I feel so good pouring things out here, at least i won't bottle
everything inside and end up picking a fight with him... 
You guys are really sweet people!!!