Actually whether the person is fresh or not doesn't matter
anymore (to me), the character is important. If there's such thing
as true love, then why does one do something irresponsible to
another?
If irresponsibility is done, it can't be undone anymore. Both
parties are at fault, unless it's a case of rape. If not why would
the girl allow him for it in the first place?
I don't really know, but I only know character is
much more important, though looks play a part. If
one party really care for another, one can educate, influence and
change he other behaviour. Example, if you really love your fiance,
you would have your fiance to quit smoking, and change your
fiance's negative attitude, etc. Only then will both parties know
that care, concern and benevolence are major aspects of love.
Anyway, there're 2 parts of populace in society. 1 part just want
to have fun. Another take marriage as serious things. And also
another type that goes from part1 to part2, but relationships would
hardly last for such.
