2nd Chance???

nomanoma SG

Just know this gal for 2 – 3 months in my workplace. At first, she got a boyfriend but when the first sight i saw her… I’m interested in her liao. So i slowly take number from her and her msn too. So we chat lor but not everynight. a week ago, she told me she and her BF break off le. So till today, i msg her i’m interested in her. She told me maybe we can be friends. Do ur think i still have a 2nd chance???

Xiao Bao Ge SG

Why so rush? Rolling Eyes

borgkilla SG

take ur time
better luck next time

nomanoma SG

Now think back, i also feel tt is too rush. Hai... Crying or Very sad

alvin-ncs SG

too rush...

she cant take it... Rolling Eyes

kecang_puteh SG

It’s best that you pass her MSN to us

monoslayer SG

u wanna try to get into her life when she is most fragile rite? it doesnt always work dude. Laughing

nomanoma SG

No problem.. provided u can wait lor... maybe 10 years later ba. Wink

ditzy SG

When you want something real bad, you go all out to get it. Once in hand, you no longer feel its a big deal. Laughing

CannyOng SG

It could have work,provided u ask her out face to face and tell her and NOT THRU SMS OR PHONE CALL...

She is heart break and definitely need a guy/gal friend to hear out. When the moment she talk sad,sad. Lending yr shoulder to her will be the best way. When she fell for yr trick by laying her head on yr shoulder then u tell her face to face ,you like her and blah,blah ,blah.... It might work but yr rushness combine with sms or phone call method will never work!

dokono SG

Your biggest mistake is that you said you are interested in her and that gave her a lot of pressure. Pressure never works in courtship. Pressure never works in everything. Worse, you never know if you are in for a rebound.

Find out who started the breakup and why. If it's her who started the breakup there is still a chance. But you rather jumped gun and got the answer.

Sorry. There's no chance. Friends means friends forever. There's no 2nd chance for girls. Don't target your workplace girls. It's very troublesome.

All the best.

fudgester SG

Too rushed.

You might get a second chance, but don't count on it.

Consider it as a valuable lesson learnt for the next time you chase after another girl.

OO_OO_OO SG

after a breakup.. girls usually swear off relationships for awhile..
u hit at the wrong time.

BrUtUs SG

guess u reali need help... u havent let the gal feel comfortable or even date her out yet n u decided to try this move...? unless u look like superstar else its no chance... as for 2nd chance, i say unless u fit her criteria else forgetaboutit... but all is not lost, u can still get to know her more and date her out so impress her with those chances is she still let u....

Ristar SG

LOL... how much more crude can u be, nomanoma???

lets see how many crimes u committed.

- girl @ workplace -- if your boss doesnt like workplace romance and gets wind about this... Laughing you are dead.

- one week after she breaks off with her bf, u tell her u r interested in her -- wtf?! definitely a shocker. she havent even gotten over the other guy completely. were u hoping for an 'after break up ride'?

- msg her u r interested somemore. -- wtf. u r NOT supposed to msg her u r interested, or tell her any such thing because, it takes SO MUCH outta a courtship. the most important things are left unspoken, or spoken when u have 200% confidence that it'd have a great impact. ie to say, securing a relationship. lastly, but most importantly, WTH did u use msg instead of your mouth? got gold izzit? Laughing

- maybe can be frens -- and u hope to get into a BGR with her when she said maybe the 2 of u can be frens, not more than frens? wtf. she doesnt even consider u a fren?!

not gonna work, unless u give this gal time. LOTS of it. even after that, maybe she wont fall for u after all. unless u r f***ing yandao or f***ing rich or both.

heres wat i got for u.

- when theres no demand, but abundant supply, the supply will end up in a dumpster.

- when theres demand, and theres supply, the demand will wane after some time.

- when theres demand, but not enough supply (from time to time), there will always be demand.

all these are actually very elementary and u should see for yourself how best u should advance your relationship with her. have a feel of the current situation and see wat u can do to improve this situation. listen to the good advices given to u but always be yourself.

de_middle SG

never ever eat at where u sh1t ok Very Happy

pwnz0r SG

Honestly, the best advice that can be given here has nothing to do if you can have a 2nd chance. Rather, the advice is to sit down and do some careful self-searching.

Ask yourself is it sensitive and understanding to try to hook up with that poor girl that just broke up. Ask yourself how selfish your motives are and how you displayed yourself to the girl. If I'm the girl, I'll avoid such a selfish fella in future. In fact, I will tell my girlfriends what an insensitive guy you are.

Next time, think twice.. nay, consider thrice before you shoot yourself in the foot. Reputation takes years to build but can be shot down in faster than you can say 'loser'.

redpicanto SG

In Short : Remain as friends for now. BUT ask her out and spend most of yr time with her. Slowly build up the relationship, get to know her more and also let her feel that you're truly worthful guy.

When both get to know each other very well, find a chance to hold her hand and cross the road and dun let go. Find a spot and tell her how you feel and ask her if she's ready to be yr GF. Make sure look into her eyes when u telling her yr feelings. THis method maybe old BUT every good to use one. Dun look down on this method, have been passed down from generation to generation.
Laughing

ha8n SG

if she have no feelings for u

also no use

FBI SG

u aer 2 fast.. jus wait for the right time and then jio her..

u had jus destroy your 50 percent chance