Do you guys think that he doesn't like it?

last SG · 2006-10-02T16:04:34+00:00

Yes it is WoW... He will only remember my existence when the server is under maintenance and i am getting sick of it... Is WoW a Never Ending game?

VaNiLLa CReAm SG

I tried something like that once...

I asked him to help me hang the blanket, coz it was way too heavy for me, but he took two days and i decided to do it myself coz it was going to smell bad...

Then it was so heavy that i got stuck at the window... and guess what he did? He came to the kitchen, took the bamboo stick from my hands and hanged it... after that, i got a really good scolding for not waiting for him to do it...

NekoRin SG

Yep I too think it's the addiction. MMOs (WoW is a MMO) often takes up alot of time as it's a 'world' inside too, with in-game economics, friendship bonds etc.

For your case it's better to approach him when WoW is under maintainence. WoW maintainence is every Tues 6-7pm all the way to 12am (SG time). Make full use of this time when the game is down.

Another suggestion is to get to know what he is doing in game. In WoW the most time consuming activity is raids. Get to know your husband's raid timings and try to get him off the game during the off-raid timings. It's pretty bad for a person to be spending 12hrs a day on a game.

Use the game's qoute to aid you
"Bring your friends to Azeroth, and don't forget to go out of Azeroth with them as well" (Azeroth is the name of WoW's world) Mr. Green

pwnz0r SG

WoW is ridiculously addicting. I have been playing WoW since its launch, and spending most of my time on the game. Fortunately my fiancee is as addicted to it as I am. We spend most of our free time in-game.

Good thing for me is that I recently got kinda bored of the game with the endless raiding and stopped for a couple of weeks now.

stellazio SG

but this doesn't solve the main problem, which is the addiction to WoW and the lack of time they're spending together. Laughing

sgboy2004 SG

Hope Vanilla Cream no go really hit her thumb hor... just plaster can liao Smile

VaNiLLa CReAm SG

I can't play games!!! I am going to play like a 3 year old boy.... or worse!!!! Laughing

elindra SG

Actually if you can try to find out his guild name and the website. They usually post their raid schedules there Laughing

Alternatively, if you can't beat them, join them. Play the game too Alot of friends I know are husband and wife team and they are logged on together all the time for hours and they are both professionals

elindra SG

Not that bad la
Wow is not that difficult to play, plus alot of females play the game too
I'm one of them Laughing

stellazio SG

send a virus to the com. Laughing

NekoRin SG

I believe they will have to reach a stage of compromisation where the husband can spend time in his favourite activity yet maintain quality time with his wife.

stellazio SG

you're not giving good advice. Evil or Very Mad

elindra SG

I'm telling her if you can't beat them, join them.

If not, the other way to tell him is to speak his language.

You can go," Honey if you don't put this up or spend time with me I'm going to aggro so bad that you wish you didn't spend time trying to down Nef" Laughing

NekoRin SG

OOT: Elindra sounds like you are a WoWer too Mr. Green

Anyway I 2nded the idea. One good way is to get yourself involved too, not by playing or such. You could get him to tell you about his 'adventures' in game. what fun things are in there. Let him bring you around to the memorable places in game etc. Then he will start noticing that you are still around in reallife.

NekoRin SG

Wife: Dear, your wife reputation is dropping, now in Unfriendly status. Time to up rep Laughing

VaNiLLa CReAm SG

Haha... I ain't stupid okie!!! Laughing

Yes, this is the main problem. Everyday we'll be at home, he'll be playing games till bedtime, have his dinner at the com... and it's been so long since we had a date...

And i don't mind him playing games, but not 12 hours a day, and me having to wake him up for work ten times everyday and get an occasional hug when he is "flying" or "taking a boat" in the game.

And i hate it when he hug me halfway, suddenly stood up and say," Wo Dao Liao..." Funny, but super irritating!!!

stellazio SG

don't worry, its proven, and you're not the only one alone.. WoW Ad.. Laughing

VaNiLLa CReAm SG

I tried playing it... But I am always killed... and I spend 3/4 of my time sourcing for my dead body... and my poor pet gets revived dunno how many times a day... the pet dies until sianz liao... haha... Laughing

I am just not a very game person.. can't even play Datona and bubble puzzle well... I tried to sit beside him and accompany him play, but he just gets so engrossed that he doesn't even have the attention to tell me what's going on in the game...

And when i asked him nicely, trying to find out the things in the games, he would go," Hiyo, dear, wo zai wan game lehz!!!!" (As if i can't see.... Rolling Eyes )

trendz SG

i like vanilla cream's siggy. Mr. Green

VaNiLLa CReAm SG

Haha... I like the last line...

"Your girlfriend would probably have sex with somebody else..." Laughing

stellazio SG

you better warn him bout this. Laughing

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