Agony, my problem :(

trendz SG

in hokkien; you describe this kinda girls as ya ban. in chinese; ye man. in english; obnoxious.

=)

MAYBE other than her great sexual satisfaction she provides you, she's really
not worth your time, bro. Wink

jam on a bread SG

She must be either pretty, talented or sexually good to make you stay wif her rite??

That sucks..If I were u, attitude problem= BYE BYE!!!!

a_x SG

She doesn’t respect you at all. So don’t ask her to decide how the relationship should go. It would be another excuse for her to condemn you & your intelligence. Decide yourself & never look back. Meanwhile play the song “I will survive” many times. Good luck, man.

soul_rage SG

can we go back to the start?
how did you meet her?
how did you both got together?
at the start, was she like that?

redpicanto SG

Bro, what is think you should do is to have a talk with yr gf and tell her how u feel, things u dislike. If the talk failes, break lah. If u remind torlentant to her temper, u will suffer even more when u got maried. Just image u got married with yr gf, everyday nag at u asking u why come home so late? Why never call me? why this why that? Worst is she control all yr monthly salary. That what's happen to me friend. Every cent he earn was given to his wife and only given I think $400 to $500 to him monthly. So conclusion, have a talk, if fail, let her go.

P/S: Do both of u opened a joined bank account?

Devil1976 SG

Before you really do. Go for a CLEAR HINT that you could be executing a break up if you're left with no choice (and that you love her and do not wish to do so - only if you feel this way)....

But that would be a 'prelude'. With no effect, break up should be executed shortly after.

Gedanken SG

Uhhh, exactly what are you getting out of this relationship?

From the sounds of it, you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain by pulling the plug on this one.

de_middle SG

My friend, the areas highlighted in RED are serious. From the many replies you have gathered here, I will just add another telling you to move on.......yes, no need to explain any further or even salvage such a relationship, simply because it's NOT HEALTHY.

You have been nice to accomodate such behaviour & being able to accomodate till such a level, i trust you can find a better one out there whom you'll have a more pleasant time with.

Best of luck Very Happy

soul_rage SG

Still, I am inclined to look at it that this is just one perspective of the relationship.
Is there a reason why something like this happened? Before faulting the gal, perhaps the guy himself have some glaring problems?

I am not offering any excuse for such behaviors, but I tend to like to reflect upon myself to see if I have the right to fault another person. Perhaps I am doing something that is very wrong too.

More often than not, I find my basic human instinct is wanting to point my finger at someone else. It takes a lot of effort to do self-reflection and to acknowledge any problem of one self

qooorange SG

quick break up with her.. this kind of r/s will bring suffering to u

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