the last poster is absolutely right, don’t give a rat’s ass to
your petty in-laws, if your wife take their side, then leave her at
home too. i’m lucky not to have such relatives, we just give and
take…what goes around comes around. can’t understand what’s the
real deal is about? so they are not referred by traditional
salutations, fact is that they got the invitation. don’t bother
letting your sis know, why upset her? fancy calling others rude
when there’s intention to boycott over trival matters..