Here's a example of what I gleaned from another all female
forum.
One young lady X age 20.
Got to know a guy Y age 21 from friend of her friend.
Guy Y likes lady X so much that he tells her at the very first
date.
That he loves her already and wants to share his life with her. He
wants to marry her but since he is still so poor serviing his NS,
to ask her to wait for him and that they should both open a joint
a/c and together they will save enough money to eventually marry
her and provide her a life.
X was so moved. She was working as a sales assistant at that time.
She brought up the issues to the other ladies and was hoping that
other people will share her enthuism that it will be a lovely
relationship.
This one says: Well, man will say all he wants. But until he took
some action like actully contributing his share to that a/c. Dont
believe him.