GF seeing her ex bf

last SG · 2006-09-10T18:19:21+00:00

Sorry, too long to read. Can someone summerise what is being discussed here? Minus who says what?

DrTech SG

What she said.

You are already so determined your GF is being unfaithful. Dragging this relationship is going to hurt both of you.

!hawker SG

ehh. no la, I meant by "how she replies" is what she replied to her ex when he told her that. Did she say like, "Oh i still love you too actually." Or like, "Eh i got BF already so don't say this kinda things can?"

LordIcarus SG

man why are you people quarreling.
dude, source for information on doing test to check.
it'll be hard to tell her that you do not trust her,
but it beats raising a child for 20 years before finding out he's not yours.
good luck m'bro.

dokono SG

Even though she said her ex-bf is a loser and all that, so what? The point is, she keep mentioning her ex. Why would some girl mention her ex if she loves her current bf? A case of contradiction!

Since you mentioned she loved you, why did she continue to SEE him? That is the most important question. No ifs and buts, it's obvious she has more feelings for her ex than you. She doesn't love you. You are No. 2 and the ex is No.1. Why did she want to contact her ex even though she and you are together? The answer is very clear: She hasn't forget the ex all along.

You shdnt have quarrelled with her. Instead, you shd have remained cool and instead praise the ex and then mention your ex-gf also. When you met her, you shd have checked if the ex is in the background.

Anyway now, there's a possibility the child cud be yours. But if i were you, I wud never take her back. She's out although you mentioned she's a threat to your family biz. Depending on your moral values, consider whether the child shd be aborted as it's not fair to the child.

compadre SG

hmmm from this i presume you are pretty wealthy? how old are you actually?

salvox SG

WOW... your situation is kinda similar 2 mine... except my gf is not pregnant... LOLX

it started off about beginning of last year... i knew her in college.. at tat time, she was still wit her ex..soon v became friends n got close 2 each other.. den she started 2 tell me tat she has feelings for me... den i asked her wat about her bf? she said tat she had no more feelings for him and they seldom chat wit each other anymore... so i told her tat i liked her as well but it's better off for her 2 settle it wit her bf 1st before being 2gather wit me...

From then on, i began 2 be with her..all the problems came soon after... she always told me she had 2 help her sis 2 work in her office on sundays by doin office work or somethin.. at 1st i didnt cared much... but 1 day, i went out shoppin wit my parents and i saw her wit her ex in the same shoppin mall!! and he was holding her waist!! she didnt saw me, so i act blur and asked her what did she do today when she got home... she immediately answered me.. "work la, wat else!!" den i found out tat she had never worked for her sister before as i called her house a few times and her sis picked up the phone and told me she went out wit her friend!!

ok... continue the story.. i soon confronted her and asked y she lied 2 me.. den she said it's because she wants some1 2 fetch her out for shopping...and this happens almost every week!!! up till now!!! i dont own a car but sometimes i get 2 drive my dad's car... 1 day, i borrowed my dad's car and wanted 2 surprise her by goin 2 her house and bring her out.. to my surprise, i saw her ex's car parking right infront of her house when i reached there.. den i smsed her, wat r u doin later?? she replied me: "goin out wit my parents 2 shop!!"

i was like WTF?? soon she came out n went into his car.. so i followed them from a distance n see where they were goin.. they went 2 his house!! from 11am till 6pm!!! when she got bk, i confronted her and she told me she went 2 his house 2 see his mom!! she said tat his mom wanted 2 see her... WTF??
after tat she occasionally goes 2 his house like maybe 1 or 2 times a month... i know this because his house and my house is quite near, so i always pass by his house n saw his car there... this thing happened for more den a year...

recently, i found out tat she's still 2gather wit her ex!! i dunno izit my fault 2 "steal" her away from him in the 1st place or izit anybody elses fault?? sigh... Sad

browniebaobao SG

simi?

u asking for a scolding isit? Evil or Very Mad

nv die before want to come irritate me?!

browniebaobao SG

I wait for u to tell us whether the child is yours.

If it's really yours, I'll laugh at you!

dokono SG

no it seems like you are the spare tyre, not the ex. After her r/s ended, she can't stand to be alone. You came along and she decided to use you.

She is not faithful. Can you imagine her to be your wife? If she can do this one time, why can't she do it many more times, behind your back? If you are weak, you will take her back.

0lala SG

No offenses really
but haven u seen the ugly local gals?

so many threads on them...wun u see

browniebaobao SG

It's only all your assumptions.

What if she's really innocent?

Can't you men juz give her the benefit of the doubt before you get any concrete evidence? Rolling Eyes

THG SG

laugh at me? for wat? even the kid is mine, I will just throw her a thousand dollar cheque and ask her go abortion. I treat her nicely and she waste my time.

compadre SG

please don't grow up thinking that $$ can solve everything. can you put a price on a human life? that is your child for goodness sake and you are talking about it so frivolously!

THG SG

I just do not want to raise a kid for someone else and 20 yrs later found out the kid is not mine. 2nd she still keeps in touch with her ex so let her be. If the kid is mine, i will pay her to go abortion.

dokono SG

BBB im giving my opinions assuming what he said is true. It's very clear based on what he said ma...the gf is still seeing the ex. Why wud she want to continue seeing the ex alone? It's all very clear. She still loved him all along (or rather she doesn't love the current one all along?) She is just trying to confuse him. Loved him but still going on dates with the ex? Give me a break! Only she will know if she still treat the ex as a friend only.

U want evidence meh? U mean u want to wait the baby to come out? The guy has to be sharp. If u really love ur new bf a lot, why dun u just forget the ex once and for all? Make it clear to the ex. It's not fair to the new guy. If u dun love the new guy then dun stay with him.

Btw, dun generalise all men leh. Im not siding anyone here. I know there are gd girls like you as well as gd men here. Razz

browniebaobao SG

u sure?

next sure u dun have kid dun cry ar!

THG SG

Pls get lost I don't need your comments ok. You seems to downgrade the guys and girls are always right. shoo shoo....go out

browniebaobao SG

pls lor!

u see wat he said?

he said even if the child is his, he will also ask her to go for abortion!

Love her? Tsk Tsk. LMAO.

Talk is cheap lah!

Even if you bring up a child for 20 years, and find out that he is not your biological son, will you sever all ties with him and throw him out? Then is there love at all?

The same goes.. he loves her? Love her still call her names, saying the child is a bastard and even thinking of asking her to go for an abortion?

$1000 cheque so what? very big ar?! Rolling Eyes If it's ur own child's life that u are throwing away, then I will say you are inhuman!

salvox SG

hey bro, if it's really your child, dont u think it's unfair for the child just because of u n ur gf's problem? i mean abortion is like killin ur own son man!! he has the right 2 live too u know... i understand ur feelings bro... i'm having the same prob as u... but the kid is innocent rite?

browniebaobao SG

What?

I'm not giving you any advices, coz you have already decided!

I downgrade the guys?

No! I only despise you!

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