what shld i do?

last SG · 2006-09-26T19:35:33+00:00

That has nothing to do with this thread...

ducktan SG

ytd while my gf and i were in the lrt. 2 of our school ah lians who didnt like my gf board the lrt too. and a guy was with them. the 2 of them kept talkin loudly among themself. and said f***ing bi**h, humji don dare diao back. although they didnt directly said it to my gf. we know that their target was her. my gf and i continued to play with my fone. because we know if we look back. they will find us trouble. partly oso because i'm a humji. but i feel very sorry not to stand up for my gf. Sad what shld i do next time? well i dont have backups and i'm not involved in any ss. and i dont want. haiz. i feel so sorry!!! Crying or Very sad anw. my gf told me that she didnt mind. because we didnt lose anything. and they will get their retribution. somehow i agree. but still i feel that i was wrong to not stand up for her. weak.. so guys. what will you do and what shld i do nxt time?

yuko-ogura SG

dats not weak.

u have shown wits in this case by not turning back.

u shld jolly well noe wad would happen if u had done the latter.

as the chinese saying goes.."duo1 yi1 shi4, bu4 ru2 shao3 yi1 shi4.(instead of heading towards trouble,why not choose to avoid it?)",next time if possible,avoid those crude youngsters.

avoid possible eye contact too.

just a slight glance at the latter may result in them thinking that ur staring right into them.

BabyTea SG

low class human good job ducktan, what u did was a brilliant move not involving with them shows tat u care abt your gf safety and it also shows tat u r better educate than those low class animal Razz

compadre SG

yes i agree, y associate yourself with the scum of the earth?

FireIce SG

ignore and soon they will realise they are jus talking to themselves...
dun have to bother abt these ppl

and......why they dun like ur gf?

ducktan SG

i have no idea either. maybe because she's prettier than the both of them bah. Smile they can just dont like you for nothing. very childish de. we know they dont like my gf cause everytime they see my gf, they will stare at her. hooligans.

Ito_^ SG

u say le mah. childish.

no need feel sad, u shld feel proud u never fall into their trap.

the.owl SG

fight them lor, scared for what? Laughing

Cool-gal SG

ignore them la, dun be so stupid to walk into their trap, coz their main motive was to get u involved with them. continue to do the same and they will feel sian after awhile. but if they ever touch u, then report police. i think u r smart enough not to bother abt them. u r not humji la, u just dun want to get into trouble, for an angry man is a daring man.

newbie06 SG

thanks to all these barbarians and hooligans that always spoilt my pleasant journey.. always act as if they belong to some ss then make a lot of noise then stare stare. I am sick of all these happenings. The next time this F%&kin happen i make sure i will complain to the school. Perhaps its time for the school to take some action. I actually saddened by the way these school children behave.

Bontakun SG

Its good that the TS (ducktan) did what is best (from my pt of view) at dat time. Ignorance is bliss.

Kids... its understandable they behave rather "big" at times. Think back when we (the elder ones) were their age... 14, 15, 16+++. How would we behave when we were dat young? I noe I be "humji" like TS and avoid trouble. There may be some of us who once behaved similar to dat.

Y? Peer pressure? Sense of belonging? Feel like being hero/heroine? Impressive?

I sympathize with these youngsters coz they could not get the love or sense of belonging in their family or good frens, so they behave liddat, mix with bad influences juz to attract attention. All they ask was for someone to listen to them and understand how they feel, but... not all families or frens or teachers can provide that...

RK2029 SG

You did the right thing! Very Happy

BadzMaro SG

if i were u... u must turn around n stare at them. Coz u must CONFIRM they are talking about ur gf. Must get confirmation first. They confirm will look at u n ask u 'kua simi lan jiao' then u say ' kua lu ma... bo le kua hamang!' then confirm they kana provoked liaw.. thats when they start swearing at u.. n u ask them are they talking about ur gf ? Once they say 'YES' or anything that points to yes.. u grab the nearest hard objects u can get... n beat the shiet out of the guy.. then u proceed to beat the 2 ah lians up. Then when u tio su.. at least u confirm they jio u first. N u boh pian.. self defence.

n when news spreads.. confirm u are doing the nice guys out there a favour.. coz the ah lians never know when a psycho like u gonna turn around n stab them with an umbrella.

damn right they got retribution..heh heh.... with ur own bare hands bro.

FireIce SG

oh....
last time i in sec sch i oso kena other ah lians jealous i more chio than them......
they are from a pinafore-wearing sch....

so tupid......just ignore lah.......

later when they know who my frens are then they diam liao

popmynutsy SG

Laughing i will do different. i just diao back. and guai lan them back.
aniwae, they oso humji wad. they wait for u to tio them. they dun like suppose to be they tio u. stupid fucks, press their ball. Evil or Very Mad

yuko-ogura SG

who are ur frens? Shocked

BadzMaro SG

thats when they did not expect u to beat the shiet out of them ma.. then call ppl beat them up some more.. break a few bones.. do some damage.. better to do GBH 'grevious bodily Harm' ma.. teach them diam diam de ppl.. dun mean dun have some 'li' behind them k.

BadzMaro SG

Fire ice is a pure example of the diam diam chaboh sit there.. n the next thing u know.. u bleeding at the gutter after coming down from the bus somewhere Laughing

Devil1976 SG

Suddenly this thread is like....? Rolling Eyes

R3SsH|n SG

it takes more guts to resist a fight than to really fighting it...

and i agree...if u want to kan them...fcuk them...u can do it all u want when your gf is not with u...cos your gf's safety is the utmost importance...

do not feel that u are a wuss just because u didn't stand up for her...try to think her safety is the most important...if u confronted them...there will be a chance that she would get hurt in the scuffle..u wouldn't want her to get hurt isn't it?

alternative...if u really buay tahan...talk to her...ask her if she wants u to confront her...then if u think u have to confront them...or she ask u to...then ask her to alight at the next station...then u have a "talk" with them...

but always try to avoid it la...sometimes it might turn out to be a endless downward spiral....