Why is he like that?

last SG · 2006-09-15T11:36:57+00:00

Hope you find a new love soon. Take care.

kopiosatu SG

next time don't ask him questions Laughing

he seems to react to questions.

dragg SG

only 2 months?

maybe you should reconsider.

rainee SG

hmm...2 months only then this kinda thing happened oledi? Think maybe you should rethink your decision abt being with him...unless you can endure all this kinda crap for long term...

And asking a girl to go back on her own at 130am is really too much... Confused

dokono SG

He seems like a dominant guy who can't seem to cnotrol his emotions. He always think he is right and always use his ego to think of solutions.

What a woonderful guy right? So uptight!

vgal SG

Care to elabrate more on your analysis please?

Why do you say he is dominant? and what makes u derive that he "always think he is right and always use his ego to think of solutions"?

Thank you in advance.

vgal SG

Oh i remember now.

When we first started together, we went ECP to skate, stood outside Mac. He keep shaking the glass of Mac and i could feel the glass moving. then i asked him not to. He said the bunch of guys inside were shaking it first. and i was saying let them do it, dun 'dou' with them. he was so angry and we had a fight and he juz left and went home (we were supposed to go back tog).

Eternal-fire SG

It seems he can’t control his anger, get him some anger managment course or something…...

blowfish SG

how old both of u?

dokono SG

Im making observations based on his actions, that's why Im saying ''it seems''. There are guys who try to dominate in a r/s and there are guys who give in too much. He could be the former. He may love you a lot but he might have a short fuse-something which he can't chang, maybe in the short term.

Ask you: does he get angry whenever other guys look at you?

vgal SG

No, dont think so. but there was an occasion, we were out with his friends in a packed place, he told me to stop fidgeting in case i have any body contact with his friend who was sitting next to me. why leh

mark_docent SG

It seems that your bf has attitude problem. He has a big ego and will not compromise or stand down. He rather angry/fight with you than loose face. For example, take the glass moving incident, if he stop doing it, means that he lost to the guys inside. His ego is to big to accept that.

My suggestions, talk to him and give him one more chance. Same thing happens again. Leave him. You will not be happy with him.

R3SsH|n SG

anger management…

R3SsH|n SG

just to add…this kind of people will beat their wife….

vgal SG

We are not young. about 30. so old already, i dun see why he wants to 'win' those kids. he insisted that he was not 'dou' with the kids. and angry cos i say he 'dou'.

vgal SG

Is it? realli?

rainee SG

think he got some anger management issue... Confused

vgal SG

sori... u maybe rite, i did think that he may have some anger management issue. but my qn is, wat is he angry about? about the joke that i say he 'secretly' eat instant noodles? why angry?

or about i asked him if he is unhappy? i dun get it. why unhappy when i actually asked him if he is unhappy out of concern? i dun understand whr the anger comes from. do u know?

Yunhaier SG

I don't think it's so much about the 'reason' why is he angry, more like his inability to handle his emotions correctly, which will often lead to an internal implosion.

Logically speaking, one wouldn't get so upset about such trival matters - but somehow it affected him, like some emotional deficiency that always trigger him regardless of how mundane the issue is.

P.S: How long did you both know each other before getting together? What's his astrological sign? Aries/Scorpio? Idea

Cheers

galfriend SG

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