Its very easy ar, just compare 2 guys:
A) Kind, caring, decent, stable - normal job, not very rich.
B) Kind caring decent at times, but selfish most other time, but
rich and stable.
Which one will the girl choose?
One in which most likely the girl won't need to work, or one in
which the girl will most definately continue working?
It actually works both ways, if i can find girl B, and the feelings
for both are the same, most likely i'll choose B too.
Oops. rambling liao.